me and my bf have been dating for 6 months..and I love him to death..we're madly in love with eachother..wanna spend the rest of our lives together..we never fight..but lately..i cant get horny or turned on like I used to...whats going on?
2006-09-05 09:46:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
im not pregnant..and i have talked to him about it..he just thinks that i dont find him attractive..I do though..he thinks he cant turn me on and feels bad..but thats not it..i think it is just that we're so close and comfortable with eachother the new relations excitement is gone..how can i fix it..without watching porn or buying sex toys lol
2006-09-05 09:59:37 · update #1
oh and I am not a lesbian..jeez
2006-09-05 16:34:35 · update #2
I am actually going through the same thing belive it or not...me and my boyfriend 9 months though...
I think it has to do with becoming comfortable with each other and a lot of the "new relationship" excitement has probably faded away a bit. It could also be due to stress, fatigue, etc...
I know that when I get home from work thats the last thing I want. But I think what will help is just focusing on him and trying to block everything else from your mind. Good luck and if you figure out a trick let me know.
2006-09-05 09:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens to a lot of relationsips. Go to a "lovers" store with ur bf and get things that the both of you would enjoy and excite you.
Hope it works out!
2006-09-05 09:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by lilbanananut112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a woman you won't get much help from the medical community for a low libido. (men sure do,...its a big deal and taken seriously) ive had no libido for years now, have complained to my doctors but they just change the subject. Womans sexuality is not as important as a mans sexuality in this world.
2006-09-05 09:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex is probably the same thing all the time and your getting bored. If that's true you should talk to him about it he might feel the same as you.
2006-09-05 09:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you pregnant? sometimes the hormones get messed
up and a woman won't get the urge. But sometimes sex is all she wants. Pregnancy does funny things to our bodies.
get a test and see.
2006-09-05 09:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you gotten horny before?
maybe you just need a little time for your body to settle in. maybe you are in a lot of stressful situations, wait for things to calm down.
if you love him, it doesnt matter you have to rest of your life to have fun with him, there are other things to do, besides pleasuring each other.
give it some time....
2006-09-05 09:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by sgrockergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps there is no chemistry? Do other guys turn you on when you look at them? Do you have health problems? Does anything turn you on? Do porn movies turn you on?
2006-09-05 09:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by foofoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess the honeymoon is over for the two of u. maybe you should watch some porn and get horney.
2006-09-05 09:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try adding in some new "toys" if your not too modest or experiment with new ways... these are always FUN!!
2006-09-05 09:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by deedlman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your coochie is dead...probably just wore it out...how old are you or should I say how many miles do you have on that thing!!!
2006-09-05 18:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋