please i want you to give me an advice if i can be seperated from a man who break my virginity because i still love him. but my education is higher than his and i am worried about that because my parents would not allow me to marry a man whose educational background is low but one thing is becuase he has break my virginity. Please i need your advice, help me.
2006-09-05 09:40:24 · 19 answers · asked by stistimatically 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Damn, u don't make sense. What has education got to do with whether u love him or not? And your parents sound like superficial people.
2006-09-05 09:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HUH what the H E L L are you talking about?what does your educational background have to do with the man you lost your virginity to if you didnt think he would be someone you may be interested in then why sleep with him in the first place also do you think he cares that you are more educated than he is guess what he got what he wanted and he could CARE LESS im sure.
2006-09-05 16:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?... is your cultural background the reason for this?
First lets address the behavior... You already had sexual relations with this person.. and obviously shouldn't have done so prior to marriage. You obviously knew your parents wouldn't have approved so, why put yourself in this kind of situation. With that being said... you have a few choices.
One...
If you love this person then marry him and be adult about the decision and get on with "YOUR LIFE".
Your parents won't be living with you and the husband (they want you to have) and they will not be there for you should this "educationally superior man" treat you like dirt or doesn't love you or respect you.. and much worse makes you miserable.
You can can marry the person you love who adores you respects you, is hard working and is interested in finding ways to grow and improve himself while being a wonderful provider.
2006-09-05 16:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to stay with the guy you have no choice but leave him. So what if he broke your virginity. Somebody's gotta be the first, but by all means he doesn't need to be the last. I can't even imagine how uneducated he might be if your education is "higher" than his - you can't spell worth a damn, and seems like you've never heard of punctuation. Please try to work on your education before having any more sex.
2006-09-05 16:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why u want to braek up with him? isit because his education is lower than yours?? thats why and the question of breaking virginty .. ppl always think that they are in love but when love is gone .. what matters .. move on and have some one better ... BUT
if u love him and he loves u ? then why break up ?/ whats the reason ? education is a matter but u can always be successful even if u have low education.. ! virginity shouldnt be mattered !
2006-09-05 16:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by sandras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the cultural norms of the society you are from. but in the US, you are not obligated to stay with a man because he took your virginity. If you LOVE him and want to marry him, then his educational status shouldn't matter. Listen to your HEART
2006-09-05 16:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are an adult its not your parents decision or say so who you date or marry if you love him be with him his education doesn't matter its how he treats you as a person and his girl if it mattered how much education he has why did you choose to lay down and have sex with him you knew his background b4 you did it if you don't want to be with him tell him dont use his background as an excuse be real with him and truthful
2006-09-05 17:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by teresa d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your parent's opinion is that sacred to you, WHY did you have sex with this man? I feel no one should marry someone less educated than them, but that is just me. I fear you are going to have a hard go of this with your parents and any future husband now, since you are no longer a virgin!
2006-09-05 16:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A relationship is based on trust, honesty, love and caring. Not on education...
If you love him and he is good to you, don't let him go.. Good men are very hard to find...
Sit and talk with your parents. Let them know you love them and respect them as well as their opinions, but that you need to lead your own life. You need to pursue and do what makes you happy. If they love you, they will understand and learn to accept your decision as well as your boyfriend....
Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-09-05 16:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are fairly new to the US. everybody makes mistakes. learn from this one and try very hard not to repeat it. Americans are not usually bound or limit romantic possibilities due to level of education. talk to someone close to you that is not your mom or dad. it should be someone who cares about you and can give you objective advice.
2006-09-05 16:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋