2006-09-05 09:27:39 · 17 answers · asked by Kate T. 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please do yourself a favor. Stop wasting your time and MOVE ON and don't look back. No discussion... just Move on.
A much better person who deserves you will come into your life. But you're definitly hindering that by staying with this person and allowing him to lead you on. Clearly it's not this dude for you.... TRUST!
2006-09-05 09:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay close attention to his actions. If your fiance keep postponing your wedding date he might be having butterflies on getting married and he is sending you a message that he is.
Now if your fiance keep postponing your wedding date you should have had a conversation into why he is doing so.
Now, If a person doesn't want to get married you shouldn't force them to do so.
Sometimes we put the cart before the horse and constantly try to get a person down the aisle because of our own personal insecurities instead of waiting for such person to come to us ready and I mean ready to get married.
Now if your finances are strapped and you can't plan a wedding maybe this could be the case but if it isn't, I would again sit him down for a open and honest talk and if he isn't ready to get marriage you will have to accept that.
Don't force or make him feel he should marry you despite his fears because you might live to regret it later if he felt he was pressured into doing so.
I suggest you do is live with the outcome and hope that his mind will change one day.
2006-09-05 09:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your fiance keeps postponing your wedding date, it is obvious that person doesn't want to marry you. Look at Tiffani Thiessen. She was engaged before, but she kept postponing her wedding date to her first fiance and they never married. Now she is married to a Brady Smith
2006-09-05 09:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why make it complicated? Ask fiance- WHAT DATE? When they give you a date, tell them great. Then tell them that either the wedding takes place on that date, or it never takes place. Then follow through.
2006-09-05 09:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rethinking marrying him. Because it's obvious that he doesn't really want to get marry and don't know how to tell you. So put him out of his misery and postpone all together and move on with your life without him.
2006-09-05 09:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you'd like to call it off, because you sense that he is uncertain about the marriage.
No point in forcing him to do what he ultimately doesn't want to do.
Give him his ring back. Tell him to hold onto it until he really means to give it to you.
Don't be a bratty jerk about it. Don't get all emotional over it. Just have a calm adult conversation with him, stating those two things.
His reaction will clue you in on how to act next.
Good luck
2006-09-05 09:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to marry you at all and tell him that..
Then bluff... tell him... you don\t want to get married anymore... If he accepts... then you should be happy...You will know he is not really interested in mariage.. But only fooling around...
Otherwise., he will have to hurry up your wedding.
I don't see any reason,, anything at all to postpone a wedding,
2006-09-05 09:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to dig in your heels and say - this is the last time. However, if you're not prepared to leave if necessary, I'm afraid you have no recourse against him.
2006-09-05 09:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new fiance
2006-09-05 09:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by I'm right 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE IS HAVING DOUBTS ABOUT THE TWO OF YOU. YOU DON'T WANT TO MARRY SOMEONE THAT IS DOUBTING YOUR RELATIONSHIP. TALK TO HIM ASK HIM WHATS WRONG..SEE WHAT HE SAYS.
2006-09-05 09:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by PRETTYGIRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋