Say you been in a realtionship for a long time. And you break up is it okay to still be friends,Or should they hate each orther....
2006-09-05 09:21:59 · 7 answers · asked by jana j 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
you can still be cordial with each other, for instance if by chance you run into each other on the street. the mall, the store, etc. but to be 'hang out buds' or talk on the phone about each other problems or whatever...you're looking for drama, either from the ex or their current boyfriend or girlfriend.
2006-09-05 09:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by candacejoy2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To hate is never a good thing. But if you have been together for awhile and you are calling it quits there is nothing wrong with being cordial. My suggestion is that you wait awhile before starting a friendship. Give yourself some time to heal and and for old feelings to die down. Being friends too fast after a long relationship will either result in you being back together or you could end up having even more anger and resentment towards the person.
2006-09-05 09:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by Confuscious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mates,but being realy close mates would just be a bit too dangerous? for everyone,yes both had feelings and probably still care but you cant go to eachother with the major "dont tell anyone" things its...its relying on them too much,making it like you NEED them,so yes mates
2006-09-05 09:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by kez_124 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am friends with all of my ex's. the one i was with for 4yrs and was pretty rocky but we still talk. i dont see the reason to hate each other unless they did something horrible to you.
2006-09-05 09:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by always thinkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes If that is what you want...
takes 2 to be friends tho... and either one of you can stop that.
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2006-09-05 09:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, it certainly is better than being enemies.
Some people are just too different to be sweethearts.
2006-09-05 09:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by SEEKER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with him.
2006-09-05 09:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by redbirdred 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋