this guy hes so sweet i aways want to see him and he always wants to see me we dont stop thinkin of each other and when were around eachother were all over eachother and when me and my kids stay the night with him he gets up and gets there cup and bottle without me asking him is it love or lust.
2006-09-05 09:08:31 · 10 answers · asked by daddyslilgolddigger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like both,but you have a perfect balance.You sound very happy and I'm happy for you.
2006-09-05 09:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with him? It starts off as lust. I don't care what anyone thinks...there is no such thing as love at first sight, just lust. After you have been together for a while it can develope into love. Lust fades. Stay with him and if the feelings continue to grow stronger and you continue to feel the same way, it may be love.
Not to sound harsh, but I would recommend getting to know him and deciding if there is a strong possibility that this will last before he becomes a big part in your children's life. You don't want your kids to get really attached and for things to end. It's just confussing as a kid when there are lots of "daddy" like people and they keep changing.
2006-09-05 09:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by reena_ree86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first 30-45 days of a relationship are "infatuation".
It is basically designed to make you "head over heels" for the other person until true love can kick in if you are actually compatable.
The problem is that a lot of people love that butterfly feeling in their stomach more than they like the person... Then after about a month and a half "he isn't like he used to be"... and they break up.
True love is based on friendship first. If you develop an emotional intimacy first you will actually know if this is someone who could be your partner in life.
Huge mistake = have sex too early.
Because: it replaces emotional intimacy with physical intimacy and freezes the relationship's mental growth. So you guys might touch all the time, but you have to keep uping the ante to keep it "hot" until you don't feel like a lady any more, and he doesn't think of you as one.
Food for thought.
Good Luck.
2006-09-05 09:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal Violet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you know him well enough before you let him around your children. I live in Florida and time and time again I read about these women that let these strangers around their children and the children are molested and killed. I dont care about the luv or lust part of this question because as a single mother i see nothing but RED FLAGS.
2006-09-05 09:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion is it starts out with lust and it grows into love the more you know the person and choose to stay with them and have commitment.
2006-09-05 09:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by sweet smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like love to me
2006-09-05 09:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always lust, love is bull ****.. and even if u are in love, its a load of ****. guys will do anything for some *** because theyre ******* horndogs who need a life.,
2006-09-05 09:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by girly7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love
2006-09-05 09:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by soccercrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just lust. all he wants is sex. if it was love he would have married you first
2006-09-05 09:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by alytherehn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be a keeper.
2006-09-05 09:09:45 · answer #10 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋