ive bein with my bf now for 3 years we've not actually managed to get physical yet, he's can never get an erection and now after 3 years im worried theres a huge prob
2006-09-05 08:40:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Maybe you need to sit down with your boyfriend and have a chat with him.Explain how your feeling but let him know there is no pressure here.I am sure your boyfriend might be having these thoughts too,men don`t generally share how they feel as freely as us,but a gentle prod sometimes helps them to open up....Good luck.
2006-09-05 08:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. thats a long time u know! Ive been avin a go at mine for havin the same problem for about 3 months now! I think that he should want to pleasure you and therefor make a visit to the doctors. He'd do it if he wants you that bad, and u have waited 3 years!
2006-09-05 15:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by ToniLianne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT is a bit of a long time to be together with not actually getting physical is it because you are too young............maybe that is why nothing has happened but then again if not why have you waited this long to raise the issue (no pun intended) now....you should have a chat with him i.e. where are you going with this relationship if there is no intimacy.
2006-09-05 15:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by angiepangy100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sammi does he ever voice concern over this to you? If he is anxious, try and persuade him to visit his doctor, to seek advice.
It could be that he is a of a nervous disposition and needs to be reassured that everything is going to be alright for both of you.
All the very best to you and try not to worry too much.
And you know there's more than one way to skin a cat. If you get my drift.
2006-09-05 15:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to goto dr's. for advice. i had the same problem awhile back. it was just stress and all crap i had gone through in the past. The less stressed both of u r ther better. I found talking with my partner helped so much. also aromatherapy oils. lavender/pathouli and cederwood. help relax and destress. good luck
2006-09-05 15:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by gooner1972 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After THREE years? Does "co-dependant" ring a bell here? Does "enabling" ring a bell here? He needs to see a doctor, you need to see a therapist.
2006-09-05 15:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
90% of erection problems r psychological.He needs help.U can see Ur doctor to arrange for hormonal tests to exclude medical problem.best of luck.
2006-09-05 15:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by speed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should think so after three years maybe you are not doing something right or he needs help
2006-09-08 09:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by patricia b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve a medal for lasting this long. Get to the docs quick and then enjoy yourselves..
2006-09-05 19:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by Platinum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must go to the dotor about this as they is something wrong maybe not ph but maybe meta and you should be enjoying sex as it the most beautful thing in the world and i feel sorry that your missing out
2006-09-05 15:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by REBECCA B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋