I have a few co-worker that hang around me all the time. I wouldn't consider them friends though. Anyway...They are always talking about people clothes, how they look, and all the men they can get. It's annoying and I often walk off and say I'm going to smoke or something. I have never been the type of person to really judge a person by how much their clothes cost or whether they look like supermodels. These girls even ask me why I hang with a nother girl at the job, because she dresses really plain and doesn't have extravagant hairstyles. I told them becuase she's a good person and has a good heart. Then they call me a bleeding heart. They always compliment me on how good my hair looks(I do it in my kitchen myself), They ove my clothes(stylish atire, but it comes from the $10.00 store), and they are always saying I'm too cute to be around certain people. Would you even continue to talk to people like this? Am I just being a bleeding heart to them for not blowing them off.
2006-09-05 08:14:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't like being around it and I don't have many female friends because of it! My sister and sister in law are a bit like that too, "too good" to shop at certain stores, judging people for how they dress, what kind of car they drive, etc. It really bothers me. Many of the things they say, could apply to me. I don't make as much money as they do, so I shop at the cheaper stores, my car is 11 years old and for a long time, I cut my own hair. BUT I feel like I'm a better person for it because I don't judge others that way. In a work situation, you have to be somewhat social with everyone, you're not a bleeding heart.
2006-09-05 08:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like superficial and shallow human beings. seems are the main needed element in existence. in case you at the instant are not a Hottie, you're an entire loser. i like Paris Hilton and the human beings of Laguna sea coast.
2016-12-12 03:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people are like that..I bet these people agree with you but are too scared to say it in case others laugh at them..they are nothing but followers..You should be proud that you have your own opinions and can stick up for others.
2006-09-05 08:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care if called me "Bleeding heart", rather than shrimp head or meat head. I don't like superficial people, I like people who have something in their brains other than emptiness, people who I could learn good things from.
You are a good person, don't change.
2006-09-05 08:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can imagine what they must say about you when not around.....no biggee just brush them off and be yourself. Those people are so insecure about themselves that they need to pick on others shortcomings is so juvenile. You will go far in life since people will realize you are sincere in your relationships and attitudes
2006-09-05 08:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by daanzig 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋