My husband just passed away suddenly. We were only married for 13 months. How do I go on?
2006-09-05 08:13:38 · 9 answers · asked by Honey 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
well, i advice u to think about ur husband how much ever u want....dont curb da feelin inside.....but remember that ur husband is watchin u....he wants to see u happy.....find something that gives u happiness...like frenz, family, a hobby....whatever....jist move on....n remember nothing is permenant.
2006-09-05 08:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by !i!i!i!FaRnAzA!i!i!i!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best you can do for now is to be with good friends and family. Don't give in desperation, that is the last thing you can do. Try to ask yourself what your love would want, if he really loves you then he wants you to be happy. Yes you have to spot seeing guys for a while but don't do this for the rest of your life. Don't loose faith and keep it together. I am also sorry about your husband.
2006-09-05 08:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by Faust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so very sorry to hear of your dreadful loss, I have often thought what I would do if this happened to me, sadly the answer always comes that I wouldn't want to carry on. Maybe it would help if you have some family or close friends near by that you can lean on. I know people say that time heals - but at the moment you probably can't ever imagine things getting any better or your pain getting any less. Please e-mail anytime you feel the need to talk or want a shoulder to cry on. God bless.
2006-09-05 08:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been through something like that before... But I am so sorry that that happened to you. I don't know where I would be without my husband. Keep your head up, you'll get through it.. Be as strong as you can, he would have wanted it that way.
Have a happy day..
2006-09-05 08:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same nightmare 8 years ago... it doesn't go away but it does get easier as time goes on. Keep your head up and be strong.
2006-09-05 08:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by noonee333 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grit your teeth and keep breathing. It happened to me 11 yrs ago and that's still the best answer I've got. (And don't listen to anyone who tries to enforce some timetable about when you should be "over it". Those people just don't get it.)
2006-09-05 08:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that .. but at lease you had time together and that's the best thing to remember.. it was a good love.. that will never die cuz u were still in love.
You still have all of us.
2006-09-05 08:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by plutoniccatgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say keep yourself from being alone as much as possible even though you probably want to be alone. Keep friends/family near by. Therapy might be a solution too.
2006-09-05 08:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Ai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we lose someone we really love, we lose a part of ourselves. You just have to go on with what is left, it is not easy.
2006-09-05 09:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by dancinintherain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋