My boyfriend dumped me, How do i get over the love of my life?
2006-09-05 08:11:41 · 21 answers · asked by Angelina 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm already 28 years old!
2006-09-05 08:26:38 · update #1
He dumped you because he is stupid.Don't worry he will come begging you back,when he does run his sorry ***.There are other men out there go out have a good time and make new friends.Forget the looser.
2006-09-05 08:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by leah 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If it really was the "love of your life",.. The truth is, only time helps and not thinking about it. You need distance from it, and focusing on other things. It gets easier. I should warn you, though: you never really get over it - it's always there.
P.S.: Do think about this break up: could it be that this is actually all about rejection and that you want something you can't have? Don't be angry because I said this; if you ask me, everyone gets like that from time to time.;)
2006-09-05 10:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by miaNov 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The love of your life dumped you... read your question again. The love of your life wouldn't have dumped you... You think that this fella is so good that you love him so badly? It's YOU ... Let go of the pain or anger, your confusion isn't helping you either. You made a mistake , that's all.
2006-09-05 11:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-24 23:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by garling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the things you used to enjoy doing before u met him. Keep yourself busy with your job and do some volunteer work to keep your mind off him. When u do volunteer job, u make people and THE MAN UPSTAIRS happy at least. Make others happy first, so that you will feel happy at the end.
By being productive, you are nurturing your soul and emotions. Make these things your new routine and you'll be fine in no time.
2006-09-05 08:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by Kim B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll find that after a while you will not feel the same...you'll start remembering the non-perfect moments. Right now you are only remembering the good times, just wait - this will pass, and you will start looking again. The love of your life will be the person that loves you equally - that person will complete you. You'll see.
2006-09-05 08:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by laurie_muldoon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it one day at a time. Time heals the wound. Realize that you are not the only one that this has happened to. Brush yourself off, get back in the game of life. Best wishes!
2006-09-05 09:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by wenonah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it takes time.Time is a great healing and through that you will grow stronger and you will have learned about all the good things in a relationship....try to think positve and be happy you will always have feelings but if he chose to leave you then that is his loss.take this for example:
What is for you wont go by you xx
2006-09-05 08:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in time u will. it hard i know. been there took me a while to get over my ex and when i did i found my soul mate who i love.
so in some way my ex did me a favar.
the same may happen to u.
keep your chin up hun. i know it hard but keep smiling.
someone somewhere loves u remember that!!!!!!!!
takecare hope u find happyness soon
xxxxxx
just think his loss not yours.
2006-09-05 08:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by alan h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey belive me you will. it will take time but try and move on go out join a gym or get a new hobby. dont let yourself go keep looking after yorself and there is a special person out there for you someone who will look after you and love you even more than your ex and you will ask yourself what was I crying over? good luck and take care
2006-09-05 08:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by malaika 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋