At what age is a good age to start having kids for both men and women?
2006-09-05 07:42:24 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
When they are married and can pay for it!
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2006-09-05 07:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Age really has nothing to do with when to start having children. Most important is to first find a spouse who is loving, stable, and wants children as well. Everyone matures at different ages. The longer you wait to be a parent, the more time you have to discover who you are and to be sure you are in the relationship that will give the children a solid home-life. Too many children are being raised with divorced parents and it is quite difficult for everyone. I was 20 when I had my first-born. She is now 27 and is expecting our first grandchild. Her husband is 29 and it is the right time for them. Dear friends of ours were 41 and 42 when they had their first. There is no universal "right" age to become a parent.
2006-09-05 07:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by sevenofus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For women, your body tells you when your ready by making you crazy for a child. Usually between the ages of 25 and 35. For men, he needs to wait until he is ready to stay in a healthy relationship. He's gotta be done clubbin and spending all his time with his friends. Men age differently then women and are ready at different times then women for a family.
2006-09-05 07:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by TheMightyOne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the parents are mature enough to take care of a child for the rest of their lives. For some people that age is 18, for others it never comes. Biologically speaking though, it would be between the ages of 18 and 30. Mid twenties is probably the best.
2006-09-05 07:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by jenpeden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think whatever age the individual is, if they are mature enough and ready to handle the awesome responsibility of raising a child- which is also very hard. I was 26 going on 27 when I had my son. I felt ready at that age. My husband was 29.
2006-09-05 07:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Girly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I think it is how mature both of them are. Are they ready to have kids? Are they both wanting kids? You have to discuss this with your partner before you decide what age is a good age. I think that if you both decide that you are ready to have kids and you have some financial stability then go ahead.
2006-09-05 09:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by angelblueyes200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be true you cant put an age on it. i mean im 19 (20 in march) and have been with my fiance for 3 years and we got engaged at x mas and we have just come to the decistion that we are going to try. we both are in full time work and i am a qualified hairdresser. if you feel ready go 4 it. only you know when your ready darlin x
2006-09-05 09:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say when the person is settled enough to have all the extra expenses that a child brings. You cant really put an age on it. If you are settled financially and in your relationship then go right ahead!
2006-09-05 09:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the individual of course but I think 25 is an ideal age to start.
I'm 31 and expecting my first and I'm really glad I didn't have them earlier because I've really gotten to enjoy my own youth, but I don't think everyone should wait that long.
2006-09-05 07:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that 25 is a good age
2006-09-05 09:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by helpif i can 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think as long as you can take care of it and know what you're doing then mid 20's is the best age.
2006-09-05 08:02:55 · answer #11 · answered by TN girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋