My bestfriend is name Trina! I think she stupid, loud, mean to others, ghetto and always wants to get funky with others! She never gives me gas! She never pays for my meal! OH and don’t let her borrow any money from you because she WILL NEVER pay you back! She believes "friends shouldn’t have to pay friends back"! Yesterday in the store she punched me in my arm for no reason!! She don’t like dogs, she likes basketball and exercising...stuff I HATE! She doesn’t like the buffet! And we don’t shop in the same stores!!! We have been bestfriends for 10 years now!
Help....I hate her!!
2006-09-05 07:22:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
SHe just told me she hates you too!
2006-09-05 07:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you say that she is your best friend? when all you do is talk smack about her. if you don't like the way things are going between you two, then you have a choice. #l. stop hanging out with her. #2. talk to her and tell her how you feel about the way she treats you. Don't let her run over you, and get away with treating you that way.
I'm sure that if she were your best friend, she wouldn't be taking advantage of you. To me a friend is someone who will stand up for you and treat you as an equal. always try to treat someone the same way you would want them to treat you.
2006-09-05 07:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What help do you want? To get courage to end the friendship? Otherwise as you wrote she shouldn't be even a friend for 10 years. And you are telling she is your best friend? Is she has any good side too? Otherwise How you spend 10 years with her as best friend?
2006-09-05 07:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by dnagsarkar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... I know what you're going through... I was best friends wit a girl for over 2.5 yrs. I haven't talked to her in over a mo now. I blocked her call but guess what ??? SHE PHONED ME !!!! :@ She's annoying, laughs @ things that aren't even FUNNY!!!, when I start to laugh cuz I just thought of something & b/f I could even tell her WHY I'm laughing, she laughs anywayz !!! That's so annoying! So we're not friends anymo. Block her # so she can't call you. If she keeps on calling you, maybe you should tell her to quit calling you. Maybe say that you've blocked her cuz you don't wanna be friends anymore. If she continues to phone you, then you should keep track of all the times that she calls you & then when she's called you 10x you should call the police & report the incident. Maybe you can ask for ... I forget what it's called right now but when they can't come a certain distance to you. I've decided to call it quits w/ my so-called best friend. One time I decided to give her a call but then I thought.... "Why would I wanna talk to HER?!?!?!" So I ended up not calling her. Ignore da calls, block & delete her on your MSN (&/or any other mess'r services you both have) & block her e-mail(s). Good luck! I don't know when she found out that I blocked her but must have blocked the # that she was calling fr to call me & leave a msg. Your friend may try to continue the friendship. This is the case w/ my ex best friend. She called me last night (I wasn't home) & said that I could give her a call. :s Yeah... right...
I decided that I might wanna talk to her but no... I decided not to. One day we accidently bumped in to each other :@ Well, she saw that I was ahead of her & going in the direction where SHE was going... GEEZ!!! She called me twice but I didn't respond. The 3rd time I turned my head & she came towards me. We must have been talking for 45 min or so. I don't think I wanna tell her why I've been ignoring her cuz it's very personal.
She could be a good friend but the thing that made me decide to not be her best friend anymore outweighed the decision to try to maintain a friendship. Weigh the pros & cons of being friends & not being friends w/ her. You might wanna consider telling her why you don't wanna be friends w/ her. Maybe you she'll change after you tell her. Maybe. After I decided to ignore her, eventually I decided to salvage the friendship.
I'm on Yahoo right now so if you wanna add me my name is: lil_miss_perfect_24
P.S. Someone put a thumbs down thing. That was after I only had 1 sentence to save my place. Then I added all the rest so please disregard that thumb/hand. Ty.
2006-09-05 07:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I hate the Cubs the main, then the Twins, then the pink Wings, then the Packers so i assume I hate 2 communities from baseball in the previous I hate communities from the different sport. i'm a White Sox, Blackhawks, Bears fan btw.
2016-10-01 08:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, get rid of her. Geez, what seems to be the issue? If you've dealt with this B.S. for ten years, you're the problem. She's just doing what she's been allowed to get away with all this time.
Slowly fade yourself out of her life. Start hanging out with other people she doesn't like. Just don't go on like this anymore. You sound miserable about it.
2006-09-05 07:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by dhalia_1977 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think back to why you liked her 10 years ago and the good times you guys have had. If you hate her so much, just talk to her, but don't avoid her.
2006-09-05 07:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she is like that then get a new friend its for your own good and oh dont do anything to tick her off she will talk trash about you to other people and trust me stuff like that spreads fast so just get a new best friend and hope fo rthe best
good luck!
2006-09-05 07:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by meagan p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you could do is put your thoughts in writing and give it to her. If you don't want to do this just realize that best friends can grow apart and then move on.
2006-09-05 07:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you call her your best friend after all that rambling you just did. If you say you hate her she is not your bestfriend. Do you have any other friends?
2006-09-05 07:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Special Ethel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh oh, sounds like somebody needs a wittle nappie-poo.
2006-09-05 07:24:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋