Men can you really have?

Question

sex with a girl and not have any feelings at all for her. Other than attraction to her body. I've never understood this. Please explain your answer.

Answer 1

Yeah, we can. Sorry, it sounds like you'd really like to think otherwise, but yes, it's entirely possible for men to do that.

That doesn't mean all of us DO, or do it all the time...humans are a combination of instinct, physical sexual urges, emotion, and intellect. What seperates us from other animals is the ability to combine our emotions and intellect with our instincts in making decisions. If we choose to ignore our intellect (for example, not thinking about the woman's feelings, what might happen to her if she gets pregnant, how it will affect her), we can do so -- but we don't have to. We can also use our intellect and emotions to make decisions. We all mix these differently, and at different times, so you can't make a generalization that works for all cases...

I'll be honest: when I was single, if I had a chance to have sex with a gorgeous girl (or even sometimes not so gorgeous) with no consequences or feelings, and she was willing, I did it. It's that simple. Nobody gets hurt, it's fun and enjoyable -- what's the problem? Now that I'm married, I of course would NOT do it, because my intellect reminds me of the hurt it would cause my partner if she found out, and how bad I'd feel myself (guilt).

Oh, and by the way -- women are just as capable of doing this as men.

Answer 2

Yes, it is selfish really, but we can. it is the attraction to the body part. We get revvved up sexually and use the body to relieve our sexual tension. This does not mean we NEVER feel for the girl, but it makes one night stands possible. we don't NEED to have feelings for her. It is the ability to seperate the emotinoaly and physical realities of sexual intercourse.

Answer 3

It's not good sex, but yes, guys can have sex with girls who they are attracted to but to not have feelings for. It is in our physiology. It is why woman were taught to keep their legs closed until marriage. Too bad for you girls that decided to start sleeping around before marriage.

Answer 4

yes , its very easy really,, just think of the person as an object, an object that is there to please you, no different then a vibrater to a woman,,,,, just let what ever the person says go in one ear and out the other,,, ,,, when you speak to them , focus only on there body parts,, untill you get good at it ,, then you can look them dead in the eye and lie your *** off and they will never know the difference

Answer 5

I am not a man but would like to put my 2 cents in.... I dont only think this ? should be asked for men.......

I think that it is possible wether a male or female to love someone and have sex with someone else.. I am not saying it is right.. But if you are with someone that you love, you dont only love them for the sex RIGHT? you love them for the way they make you feel, make you smile laugh cry....ect........ so tell me if you love this person, and sleep with soemone else that doesnt mean you dont love that person... because SEX SHOUDLNT BE BASED ON LOVE, nor LOVE ON SEX......you can love someone and sleep with someone else, and not love that person your sleeping with, bcause it is jsut sex...

Answer 6

you got me I have to love and have feels for a Women before a I have sex with her

Answer 7

darlin its a male thing.u will never understand.dont let it get to ya

Answer 8

sure can when u paid 20dollars for it

Answer 9

Yes... it's called Lust.

Answer 10

are you a kid? then i'll answer your ?'s