and i cant get that **** out of my head I think about it 24/7 it's not like im not normal but I anit hug like he was. Any advice?
2006-09-05 07:03:42 · 14 answers · asked by coolbreeze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, tell her u are feeling uncomfortably with what she's saying. If she doesn't stop then u talk about all your ex-girls n how good they were n see if she likes it. Maybe that will make her stop.
2006-09-05 07:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If this is getting in your head and she continues to bring it up, its obvious she likes for it to bother you and you don't need that. For whatever reason, your girlfriend enjoys making you feel inadequate. Regardless of your relative size, its pretty apparent that you don't measure up in her eyes and her constant reminders could mean any or all of the following:
a) She doesn't care for you, so she's with you for some reason besides caring for you. Maybe some sort of "revenge"?
b) She has a negative personality (there are many) that enjoys belittling other people (see how well liked she is, how does she talk about other people?).
c) She still has the hots for her ex and may even still be hitting it, her comments about relative size may be a way to justify those actions.
d) She is incredibly dim and insensitive. Imagine to yourself what her reaction would be if you told her that your ex-girlfriend was really tight and that felt great.
Well, all I can say is imagine your life in 20 years with a person like this, like what you see? If not, quit wasting your time and feeling bad about yourself, move on, find a girl that if nothing else, cares about you enough to lie (if you ask how you compare, which you shouldn't) and also keeps things in perspective.
Priorities are self evident in how she treats you, the order should be:
1) How does she feel about you
2) How do you treat her
3) How well do you get along with her
4) How well do you do things together
5) Is family /money priorities somewhat aligned?
6) yaadaa
28) how well hung are you compared to her ideal?
2006-09-05 14:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by happyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys put way more emphasis on the size of their package than girls do.
I can honestly tell you, that I chose the guy I'm with currently, even though he is not as large as the ex. I stay with him because he is light years beyond the last idiot as far as sexual performance. It also helps that I think he's a great person for so many other reasons.
I can also honestly say that too large is not the least bit satisfying by itself. There's actually a lot more bad friction than pleasure.
I don't know how this conversation came up between the two of you, but I can say that you should be asking her whether or not she is sexually satisfied by you, and what else she might suggest you both try to do so that sex is even better. Not pouting about her stupid ex-horse boy, who she dumped! Hello! They don't like each other enough to have sex anymore! Ever! So, for some reason, she likes you better than him! Duh!
Good luck, really hope I helped, cause I really crossed the TMI line for ya here.
2006-09-05 14:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not nice of her and very distructive and unhealthy to your relationship. Sit down with her a let her know exactly how that makes you feel. If she persist with the comments it might be time to cut ties and end the relationship, as much as it might hurt. Nobody likes constantly being compared to someone else. Find somebody who likes you for you, no matter what your size is "down there".
2006-09-05 14:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by sheila c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possibly give her some of her own medicine and see how it makes her feel? Why is she bringing up an old boyfriend to you? It isn't like you have any control over your size. she really sounds a bit petty and immature to me.
2006-09-05 14:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt worry about her ex's size 'down there' cause shes with u now aint she? but she still shouldnt bring up her x bf's dick size in conversation. thats just rude and wrong in ne relationship! Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-09-05 14:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Carly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband WANTS me to talk about my ex and his size.
Yes, the ex was bigger, but no - my husband is not hung up about it..
We love each other - and its just part of our sex routine.
Maybe you can find a way to make that talk exciting for both of you??
2006-09-05 14:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by plain_jean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay much attention to it. I do the same thing to my BF and is really unintentional it does not mean much. And honestly size is not everything. Too big is also too bad. Be calm and do your thing.
2006-09-05 14:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by andia2amat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something that might stick in your head. Try thinking about good qualities in that area that you might have. And what type of pleasure that you give her. It's not all about how your hung it's all about how you use it and what pleasure you can give your mate.
2006-09-05 14:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by volcano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Just remember "IT'S NOT THE SIZE OF THE SHIP BUT THE MOTION OF THE OCEAN".
2006-09-05 14:08:27 · answer #10 · answered by Monty L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋