I keep dreaming about a guy I knew in high school. I had a huge crush on him and he was a "bad boy" and my parents wouldn't let me date him. He ended up actually killing himself by swallowing a whole bottle of asprin after stealing a car one day. Lately I have been dreaming about this guy at least once a week. Last night I dreamed I couldn't picture his face so I went to where he used to live and talked with his mom. His mom gave me a picture. Although in reality I haven't been able to picture the guys face since high school, I saw it vividly in the dream. Weird.
2006-09-05 06:38:06 · 8 answers · asked by eddysmomma 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
First a few thoughts about your dream. Now, some people could interpret that this guy has some importance in your life. I would disagree; in the dreams most things that represent something don't exactly look like the thing they represent. In this case, I would guess the appearing of this guy means that you have been lately thinking about matters related to incidents in your life back then. Most of these questions would probably fold around the concept of parenthood: were your parents right when they didn't let you date him? How much should you try to choose your child's friends? How can you be such a good parent, that your child won't become a "bad boy" like that guy? Did his parents do something wrong, or do things like that just happen? Now, I don't know if you have children of your own, or what would make you think parenthood, but I would guess it is a birth of a child somewhere near you (or your own child growing up to the age where he/she starts to hang out with other children).
Now about your question. Last time I had a recurring dream was when I was 6 years old. That's a long time ago, but that dream had a big influence in my life back then, and still has. I learned to control my dreams, and it started to teach me how to face my fears in the real world too. The dream was about some kind of a monster hiding in the darkness in our living room (which was between my bedroom and my parents bedroom in my childhood home). From time to time I still think about that dream, and occasionally visit that house in my dreams (sadly this is the only option, because that house doesn't exit in the real world anymore). Every time I've given particular thought to that dream, I've learned something about my childhood or life in general.
Sweet dreams.
2006-09-05 07:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah.
I've had this nightmare since i was in first classroom:
I'm in a classroom with a girl I was best friends with in first grade. The rest of the class is there too and we're all listening to a speech by Bob Saget (yes I'm serious I have nightmares about Bob Saget). For some reason or another he gets really angry and falls into a cup of coffee. He turns into a dragon and starts destroying the classroom. My and EMily run down the hall and he chases after us. Then I wake up.
I have the dream at least once a year for 13 yrs now.
2006-09-05 06:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by MMTS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep having a dream that seems so real. I wake up in the middle of the night and see a big spider dangling over my face. I rub my eyes and its still there. I wake up my husband and he turns on the light, and of course there's nothing there. This has been going on for years. I'm not sure if I'm awake and seeing things, or dreaming.
2006-09-05 06:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had a reoccuring dream for the past 10 years and it is always in black and white ..im waiting in a room for a man who is prominent thats all ive been told in the dream.. by the man behind the counter ..he sits me at a desk by a phone..tells me to wait..the phone rings I anser .. but noone speaks to me.. and then a door opens on the other side of the room.. i walk towards the door to see whats behind it ..it opens slowly and is very dark inside a hand reaches for mine..and I reach for their hand before I get to touch ..the persons hand... I wake up suddenly...im very baffled by this ..the other dream I had not too long ago... I was waiting on a park bench and the dream is full of color..a man walks over to me and reaches for my hand and we walk and smile....the latter dream was better ..but still baffling...
2006-09-05 07:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha Ha. Weird reoccurring dreams..? Yes.. I used to dream that this mud monster would chase me all over the town and follow me in my house. Then I'd hide behind this chair and as the mud monster got ready to gobble me up, I'd wake up..
Over the years I have grown to believe that the mud monster was my stepfather...
2006-09-05 06:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by pebbles1382 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a dream at this factory for 15 years and it the same people ,same machines,I went to a doctor about it,he could not explain it to me
2006-09-05 06:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to dream one but many yrs ago. whatever u dream is generally about what u keep thinking or have special place in ur life, so dont worry. good luck.
2006-09-05 06:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is strange..i believe dreams are our subconsious trying to get through and tell us do to things, or give us advice. i always have strange dreams, i think about them thoroughly and try and figure out what my mind is trying to tell me.
i think you need some closure on this guy..he probably meant a lot more to you than you think he did. if you can, actually do go to his parents and talk to them about it. that will help you.
remember, dreams never lie.
2006-09-05 06:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by curious 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋