Why is it that when a woman a man is with is not feeling comfortable with her self (felling fat, ugly etc.) That he blames it on his self or he says "...I think your beautiful i love your body, but no matter what i say its not good enough...i'm not good enough to make you see it, to make you love yourself like i love everything about you." I mean its not about the guy or what he says or thinks ot feels its about the woman. If she feels and think and believes she is fat then it does not matter what any one says or thinks she will still feel the same about herself! So why do they "blame" it on them saying and thinking its thier fault or they arent good enough to make us love our selves????
2006-09-05 06:37:38 · 3 answers · asked by TEMPTRESS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most guys just want to end the conversation and get you in bed, so they'll say anything.
They do mean it a lot, but I know it doesn't help in the moment.
But the reality is, no guy can make you love yourself--you have to get that on your own. Cliche, yes. True, most definitely.
2006-09-05 06:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by nowimrelaxedicantbesure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of them are hoping the woman will snap out of it or sympathize with them. It's a lot of stress on a man to put up with a woman thinking she is fat.
2006-09-05 06:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Bookgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think that it's their fault for making her feel bad, for either not being good enough or something for the man.
2006-09-05 06:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by straight_a_blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋