There is a very big possiblity that I could be pregnant by my ex boyfriend. But see the thing is he's already getting ready to have a baby with another woman whom is his girlfriend. What got together almost 3 1/2 weeks ago and made a bad decision and had unprotected sex. Now for the last week my breast have been hurting like I don't know what, not my nipples but my actual breast. And I've been sleepy, hungry, and nausea. He's already stressed out over her pregnancy, because it would be his first baby. Now I could be pregnant too, please help me?
2006-09-05 06:16:35 · 10 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Talk to him let him know what is going on he sould have known that this could happen when you have unprotected sex. I understand that he already has one baby on the way but i would just tell him any way he needs to know so that your baby and your needs are not being neglected.GOOD LUCK
2006-09-05 06:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by mcdanieljoanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point I don't understand between you and him you both know what the consequences are going to be when you don't use protection, so yeah you'll made a bad decision but if you are pregnant, now you got to think about what are you going to do? Have this child or have an abortion due that he is so stressed that he can't handle the fact that you are, there no point at all for him to get upset at you if he does because he should know what will happen when you don't use protection before sexual intercourse. What is it that we can help you with? We only can tell you to go to your doctor if you have one or find you one or actually go buy a pregnancy test even though some aren't accurate. The best thing first is to go to your doctor and find out if you are pregnant, and then if you are you need to tell him and see what you and his plans are going to be for this child. Don't feel bad if you are because you know what the consequences are going to be before he even got started getting his groove on. So good luck to you if you are pregnant. If you not thank god and use protection from now on if you don't want kids.
2006-09-05 13:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take a home pregnancy test. If that doesn't help you then I would go see your doctor. Don't worry about his new girlfriend and their pregnancy. He is the one who should have wrapped it if he thought he was going to get you pregnant. The bottom line is that a girl needs sperm in order to get pregnant, and he is the one with that power. Us women can't get pregnant on our own. So he wasn't worried at the time and he shouldn't be worried now. He needs to take care of the problem he has with putting on a rubber before he has sex. And hate to say this to you, but freaking out about it isn't going to make the situation any better for you or your baby. You could be worrying about it so much that your body is acting like its pregnant too. I've had that happen...I even skipped a few periods too. Take care of your self and this baby that you might be pregnant with, then worry about how he is doing with the other stuff later.
2006-09-05 13:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does anybody really think anymore...? I feel sorry for the three of you... and ever more for the babies that are being brought into this world... It's really a sad situation... You can't take bad decisions back... Once you make them the damage is done...
The real question now is,will your ex buy cigars to pass out for both births...?
2006-09-05 13:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by deakjone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 1/2 weeks ago would be enough time for you to know if you are pregnant or not.
Bottom line, take a pregnancy test.
If it's positive, then stress about it.
If its negative, be glad it's negative and don't have unprotected sex again.
2006-09-05 13:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by HoosierMommy06 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh hun, yes you could be pg, but it is not your problem that he's having a baby with his GF, he has to back you up on this as well. Why dont you buy a pg test, like first response, maybe it could tell by now if you are, if it is neg wait a couple of weeks and take it, better if you do it with your first morning urine. What you are telling us are possible signs of pg.....Good Luck
2006-09-05 13:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you take a test and know, why worry over it? What's done is done at this point. If you are pregnant, you just need to be point blank with him--hopefully in private--and let him know. I wouldn't brag it out in front of his other girl or brag it around town and cause problems for anyone, but if you are and you're sure it's his, he's gonna have to know whether he likes it or not!
2006-09-05 13:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by missionhtg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
took a big chance and now unfortunately you very well could be pregnant, take a test that is the only way you will know for sure. good luck to both of you.
2006-09-05 13:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your doctor or take a test, decide what you want to do if you are, and if not make better decisions in the future.
2006-09-05 13:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by TIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult your doctor or try a home pregnancy test. Good Luck.
2006-09-05 13:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by daisy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋