2006-09-05 06:16:10 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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2006-09-05 06:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would be upset (angry and disappointed) and curious as to why i was just finding out about this secret now and not before me and my spouse were ingaged to be married and at the altar. i would of course want to talk to my spouse in private and sit down and have them explain it all to me. then i would have to except it and be as understanding as possible and go and call off the wedding as tactful as possible.
i would then probably leave, go home, change out of my wedding dress, and go to a bar to have a few drinks and get tipsy to get over the whole mess. i would bring along my best friend and have a long talk about "how could i have not noticed my spouse was gay?" and "how am i suppost to get through and over this embarrasment?" and "who is going to want to marry me now after hearing that i slept with someone thats gay?!"
i would probably get mad and then just get over it.
if my partner was a man and told me he was gay i would go get tested a.s.a.p for aids and etc. seriously. i would do that anyways probably. just to be on the safe side.
also i would throw away everything that reminded me of that person and not talk to them for at least a month or two. then i would eventually learn to forgive them and move on the best way i could and date someone new. (hopefully someone not gay of course) and i would ask believe me. *smiles* i would learn to take life a little less seriously and learn to laugh about the whole mess. and eventually, i would be able to congratulate my ex fiance of his or her new happy relationship with their same sex and be okay and at peace.
the end.
ahahah, good luck.
2006-09-05 06:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by succubus_angel_666_777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest if he felt he had to hide that portion of his personality form you and the trust that you had thought you had established is now torn and tattered I would let everyone know that the wedding is postponed due to unforeseen circumstances on your part. You back out gracefully and re-establish your friendship and see where life will take you now as the road to happiness is filled with pot holes. Good Luck!
2006-09-05 06:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by psychologist is in 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go through with it, have a wonderful party, not tell a soul, and have it annulled on the next day the courthouse is open. Either that or kiss him, but that isn't going to happen!
2006-09-05 06:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love him even more! NOT!!! That would just be wrong... I'd definatly call it off! I mean i like gay guys their sweet and all but for him to let me fall in love with him then i find out he's gay?? YUCK!
2006-09-05 06:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by georgia_gurl345 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him/her all the bills for everything that was spent on the wedding. Tell him/her to have a good life without you. And move on.
2006-09-05 06:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would find a better spouse.
2006-09-05 06:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would call in the altar boy and let him take the vows with the gay spouse, lol!
2006-09-05 06:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by avrguy_ph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it up to my spouse to deal with the public, and leave the church single.
2006-09-05 06:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I AM gay, so I'd be HAPPY to know that my fiancee is gay, too!! If she said she loves men, then I'd lick her kitty until she forgets all about that sh!t. Seriously, I'd dump her and tell her "good luck with your life." I'd break ALL contact with her.
To "Timeless" - No, sweetie - you're misinformed - gays are NOT mostly bisexual!! Who told you THAT sh!t?? WRONG!!
2006-09-05 06:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a bond for life long...i don't care about others when it come to my life.Defiantly i will call off the wedding & look for better life partner.it is better to take one day pain rather then life long .
2006-09-05 06:30:34 · answer #11 · answered by NIKE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋