I am 56 and have been divorced for 8 years. (Nothing to do with being unfaithful) I have a brilliant relationship with my new partner (we don't live together)of 7 years but I absolutely love looking at other women. I have no desire to seduce them or anything like that - it's just window shopping but without any intention to buy. It's just fun. We both laugh about it - and I get some stick. However - I guess I wouldn't like my partner to be a serial ogler - although I could identify with her. I suppose it would be interesting to know that I am in that respect a typical male of the species. I don't feel guilt - it's just one of life's little pleasures. Any (men in particular) can identify with my outlook? Women's views too would be interesting.
2006-09-05 06:13:26 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I try so hard not to look but my eyes let me down
2006-09-05 06:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see anything wrong with it, I'm a serial ogler myself. I love to fantasize about being with the women i look at but i know i would never be un-faithful to by gf. It's just fun and most of the time i get ****** so my gf benefits from my ogling too.
2006-09-05 06:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help myself. If I see a beautiful woman, I will look at her, specifically if she is wearing a revealing outfit. It is partly like looking at a piece of art and partly a secret desire to bed the woman. However, I know I will never be able to get her into bed, this is why I look, so I can imagine being lucky!
2006-09-05 10:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by kowfeef 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are a very typical male. all men like to look and admire women, also most men get very upset when their woman ogles a man, so you are normal !!!
2006-09-05 06:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know any guy that doesn't like to Ogle....lol!! My husband is always doing it and he tells me about it....lol!! He even tells me when he gets hit on by other girls. But there is nothing wrong with looking!! For gods sake if you didn't look they would think you were either dead or Gay...lol!!!
2006-09-05 06:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is completely wonderful. a good type of human beings watch cleansing soap operas including adult males. human beings like the drama. in case you do not have a good type of drama on your own existence, then that is not any longer unusual that you need to locate cleansing soap operas relaxing. The storylines are literally good at circumstances and most of the characters can basically draw you into the instruct. do not allow each person make you experience undesirable about it or like you're unusual because you're a guy. even as i replaced into in college, I lived close to the athletic dorm and a number of my extreme college friends were on the football crew, so i ought to end via and observe them. in some unspecified time sooner or later my pal and that i walked in and yet another female walked in in the back of us. She talked about her pal and yelled his call. without delay I heard a collection of human beings commence retaining, "Shush!" in proper team spirit. I looked as if it would my actual and talked about very nearly the total football crew staring at Y&R in the residing room area. Y&R comes on two times an afternoon in our state, and the adult males ought to continuously assemble round in the afternoon to visual reveal unit it. i ended college 8 years in the past, and a number of different of my former scholars have lengthy gone on to be athletes at my alma mater. They tell me that the custom nevertheless exists.
2016-12-06 11:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by krok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its almost like guys HAVE to look. when they're in the middle of apologising for one look, you can kinda see their eyes starting to follow another girl.
girls want to look, believe me. its just that we're a lot more disciplined about it. we like a good gawk as much as anyone but it isn't really a nice thing to do, is it? maybe girls tend to look sidelong and guys tend to look straight. more obvious.
anyway to a girl, can't take your eyes off him means you glance his way every few minutes - but to a guy it means you're frozen with your tongue hanging out. they can't help it, poor things.
2006-09-05 06:23:34 · answer #7 · answered by runtotheangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, you're never to old to look. It's what we've been doing since the dawn of mankind!
2006-09-05 06:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by Phlodgeybodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with that? God gave men their eyes to appreciate beauty, use it well!
2006-09-05 06:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by Big Bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres absolutley no harm in looking, just try your best not to do it in front of your gal. you would not like her to do that to you.
2006-09-05 06:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by demondamon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋