Everyone else in my year wears one and i have to wear a jumper so that no one realises and makes fun of me. Is there any way just to prove to her that i need one. Please give me suggestions.
2006-09-05 06:12:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
try explaining to your mum that people will make fun of you, and try and get her to agree to going to an apartment store to be fitted and if you need one explain its very important for you to have a bra for support and posture...
2006-09-05 06:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
I personally think that you yourself should try to think of the best argument you can present
to your mum. Just try to think of other positive aspects of wearing/owning a bra and consider the pro and cons from your mums point of view.
Does she think you're to young? Is it because she cannot stand the though if her daughter actually becoming a woman?
You can ask her that? Ask her why she doesn't want you to wear one. And then you will have a much better ground for argument. Your mums not gonna buy the everyone wears them, because she probably does not want you to grow up to be a follower, so hink about why and when and how and try to make a good argument for it. Health, Psychology( about what it actually means to be singled out) etc...
I advise making a list of pros and cons, of why or why not. Admit to the "why nots" but try to make it seem that your "pros" outweight her doubts.
And maybe if you can talk to the mums of "everyone" who wears them, maybe they can help you make your case. And if not, well your body belongs to you! You ask your mum kindly because you respect her, but it doesn't depend on her at all.
If you can live with a little stress in your fam and you think that its worth it, I think you should go for it no matter what.
2006-09-05 06:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by dadudu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Point out the advantages of wearing a bra eg good posture.
2006-09-05 06:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have boobs yet? If you do, then you need a bra. Otherwise, don't worry about it. Don't be in such a rush. When you are grown, you will wish you didn' t have to wear a bra. They are uncomfortable! Mine has been driving me mad all day!!!
2006-09-05 06:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your mom thinks your too young Bras are so gay you wouldnt like them. How old are you? You only need a bra when you get some big nockers. -lol-
2006-09-05 06:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and get yourself fitted at a department storre, if you need one they will tell you. its important not only for support but for posture too. apart from that, even if you dont need one if all your friends have one then you shouldnt be made to feel uncomfortable or left out from your friends. could you not save some money and just go and get one?
2006-09-05 06:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say...show her how u have become responsible and explain to her that u think u have become mature enough to need a bra.
2006-09-05 06:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by meowgrr_thejuicypenguin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have large enough breast to wear a bra and if you do than pull them out and show your mom
2006-09-05 06:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by chan_sweet91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for a sports bra instead, she might not object to that, they're more comfortable and should still 'pass' as a bra with your mates
2006-09-05 06:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by drblonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you need a bra you must think you have breasts. To that end, show your Mum your breasts so she knows you need one.
2006-09-05 06:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by Dazzer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋