do u agree ?? . if u dont , dont answer me?

Question

i'm going to get my gf pregnant when i turn 18 years old , i'm 16 and next year im going to work and get a good paid , i want to be a daddy and make a family then married and i'm ready for everything . do u agree with me ???

i already said if u dont agree , dont answer me .i'm damn ready !!!!!!!!

Answer 1

yes.u want to be a daddy,and that's a great thing.the age is not important. i wish u goodluck

Answer 2

it's best to get married and then get her pregnant, that'd be the best way to show you're ready to be committed to her and have a family with her, and if u r having sex with her now u have to realize that protection doesn't always work, so if u 2 r having sex then just don't assume she won't get pregnant until u r 18..u do seem more mature than most guys your age since many guys your age r just interested in the sex and not thinking the female would be someone he'd want to marry and actually be a father to..most guys at all ages would never want to get a female pregnant and would rather avoid a family, so u seem more mature and have better family values than most guys..2 people can make a baby work if they really love each other and r confident about the situation and work hard to make it happen, and can be responsible, regardless of age, so if u r ready and believe u and your gf (who would have to agree with u obviously when she's 18 for this to happen), then u probably can do it with working and proper care and time management, so good luck if that's what happens and make sure u 2 would get married first, but make sure u 2 get married since u 2 really love each other and feel ready for that commitment and for a possible family..life for your child would be much easier, as well as for the both of u, if at least one of u get a college education, so hopefully either or both of u are planning to do that at some point so that u can help with your child's college education and just make like easier for each of u, so there might be financial hardships when u 2 are younger but u 2 will likely be ready if u 2 r ready to be tight on spending and don't mind that..if u 2 want to be married and have a family then it's all good really to do that

Answer 3

Let me just say this, yes you may feel ready to start a family, which is great if that is what you want in your life. But I want to remind you just how hard a baby can make life while 18 is such a young age. I was 18 when I gave birth to my first son. It ruined my chances of a higher education, we lived tight due to working low paying jobs, then to top it off... the father and I grew tired of eachother and divorced while our son was only 1 year old, however I will be tied to my ex for life. I am now 31 and longing for a better education, sharing custody of my son and re-married to another man who is trying to raise a son that isn't his. Just think long and hard before you jump into a situation like that, trust me when I say, a baby changes everything.

Good luck with your decision, but think about it very carefully first.

Answer 4

NO! It's her choice when she gets pregnant in the first place, because it's her body. And if she wants to, whether you are in a relationship or even married, she can have an abortion without your consent so you better make sure she wants it.
And you will most likely not have the money to support a child at 18, and you will definetly not have the knowledege it takes. It's mostly going to be your parents. And looking at your grammar, I doubt the child would learn much from you. It's not about whether or not you awnt to be a father, it's about whether your situation is good for the child, and it won't be.

Answer 5

It's really hard to get a good paying job with only a high school diploma. And will your gf work too? Daycare is very expensive too, as well as diapers, clothes and food. Unless of course you want to be on welfare.

If you wanna have a kid at 18, go ahead. Just try to do some research on the financials so you really know what to expect.

Good luck.

Answer 6

You aren't ready. You are going to do this..............you are going to do that???????????? hmmm....If you love any baby you bring into this world why don't you offer him or her

**** mental stability
***** maturity
*****a two parent home where the parents are committed in marriage
****financial stablitiy. A $7.00 an hour job as McDonalds doesn't cut it
*** how about a college education

*** HOW ABOUT WAITING???????????

You don't know what you want at 16. You are selling yourself and any baby you bring into this world short by offering nim or her a teenage father. You are being selfish. You are not a man and it takes a man to endure that type of responsibility. Reality will set in when you can't afford daycare, diapers, food, formula, clothes, etc off your $7.00 an hour job.

How could you be so selfish?

Answer 7

I'm 29 in two days time. My wife and I are only now looking at starting at family. We both have good jobs and realised that there is never going to be a right time, so why not start now?

Best of luck to you if it happens - but how does your girlfriend feel? Does she view this as a long term partnership, is she ready to have a family? Its all good and well for you to have made a decision, but she is going to play a major part in this too.

Answer 8

umm...if you don't want a mixed response...then you shouldn't of asked the question...not to be rude or anything.

okay...it's great that you feel you're ready for parenthood...but i personally think you should stay in school, and get a higher education, so you can truly give that child all you can give (food, clothes, a house to live in, furniture, love, toys, a college education...) and have extra money to spend. it's scientifically proven that people with a degree make more money than the people with only a high school diploma, after all.

Answer 9

Iff'n you wanna get good paid...get good edjamakated, first. Making a baby doesn't make you ready for anything...it just means you know where to stick your ding ding into a girl. You don't get good paid that way (though she might).

You are SO not ready...now, or at 18

Answer 10

At 16 you have NO IDEA what you want. Soon enough you and your g/f won't even be together. Also where are you going to live, what job are you going to get that supports 3 people? Why do you try to be a kid, have fun and enjoy yourself while you're young.

Answer 11

This Is something only you can answer, but If your really set on having a baby just remember to stay In school, and work your a** off b/c baby's are not cheap, I know b/c I'm 21 with two beautiful boys and me and my husband are expecting our third child In Oct. Remember you and your g/f can make It, me and my husband make It everyday! GoOd LuCk and I wish you and your g/f the best!