My friend asked me this question and i was like what! Is there any thing wroung being with a guy just for the sex. She said that it was best to be on her own ,but when she has her needs there is this guy she could always call.
2006-09-05 06:00:45 · 21 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you can deal with it, then I see nothing wrong with a sex buddy.
The problem is usually you end up falling for the guy and he isn't interested. Then you get hurt.
2006-09-05 06:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a common thing in several countries.. For example I am not from UK or USA... It depends on the society's perspective I think... If they think that it is wrong morally,you should not have a friend like that... In several countries girls have to be stay virgin... So having such a friend should be kind of shame for them...I think being a virgin when you are getting married with your boyfriend/husband is the best way for health and how do you say, for being clean...Maybe you got what I mean ...being a virgin and staying like that until the marriage is the best way for me... (cuz of the illness like Aids or smt like that..)
2006-09-05 13:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by derin15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse there's nothing wrong with doing that as noone gets hurt. But usually what happens in these circumstances is someone gets more emotionally involved and starts to want a real relationship.While the other just wants free pleasure. So as long as they know what they're getting into, whatever floats their boat.
2006-09-05 13:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Paige 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's called friends with benifits lol. The only risk in this is that feelings might be involved after a few intercourses :s...apart from that i guess there isn't anything else..
Take care.
2006-09-05 13:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it really depends on the person and their beliefs. I've done the same thing at times and at first it's okay. After awhile I think their is a guilt you feel for either not caring for the person or caring for them and them not feeling the same. Then you start to feel used.
2006-09-05 13:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is ok as long as to the two are clear on what it is. when one has feelings then things get more complicated.
if both are free from commitment and are straight forward with the other then no problem
be clear it is just sex and nothing more
2006-09-05 13:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by me2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know theres a reason there are toys out there to help girls out. does she know who else this guy is a sex friend for? does she know what his medical history is? with the chances of getting diseases right now why would you want to sleep with someone you knew nothing about who or where they have been? tell her to be careful
2006-09-05 13:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by Richard and Kristi C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a thing wrong with that. No feelings to get hurt, just sex,
2006-09-05 13:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. It is nice to be able to have someone you can do that with and not worry about emotional issues and jealousy and all that other crap that comes ith relationships. I personally don't see anything wrong with it.
2006-09-05 13:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by ceecee_41004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously speaking, this is an excellent idea.
The guy would be very lucky!
2006-09-05 13:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Líbano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋