why do people say something and not really mean it... Like telling a guy that they dont love them, Or leading a person on until they fall for you then backing out>? Does it make them feel better about themselves because over-powering? Should i smack them a new one and knock some sence into them?! Idk , you depend on someone and then they let you down.... Everytime i try to get close to someone... they turn their back on me. Or stab me in the back.. idk... maybe im just ranting in nonsence and dont really know what im saying. Or maybe i just need a hug...
2006-09-05 05:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by guitar = my life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its basically a lack of character. Some people manipulate others to get thier way, or to feel better about themselves because they are insecure or have a low self esteam ,or simply cuz they are losers. Keep looking not everyone is like that, but go ahead and knock some sense into a few untill you meet them. Alot of people nowdays have no morals or values and dont care what kind of reputation they have as a liar or untrustworthy. Just be happy knowing it will catch up to them one day, and they will get what they deserve.
2006-09-05 06:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know. I think that for some people it is the challange. When they finally get what they want, they are just not interested anymore. Thats bad, but true. I can remember one example of this in my own life. One time when I was really young, there was this guy who had a huuuuugggggeeee crush on me. I never lead him on or anything and I did the right thing by telling him I was not interested but once he was disinterested this weird feeling came over me, like I wanted him to like me again, even though I did not like him. I guess it is just a mental thing. Some people just get a big rush outta knowing they can have something or someone if they want it. Hang in there though, everyone is not like that.
2006-09-05 05:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're dealing with inmature people that are not self aware enough to see that they are being destructive. Try being more selective with who you get close too, watch how they treat and talk about those closest to them. They will treat you the same.
2006-09-05 05:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tall Blonde Spaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a really big hug and a change in attitude. stop being so nice, be a little bit of a ******...not TOO much.
2006-09-05 05:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Terry Legendary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess youve had your trials and errors and should be able to draw your own conclutions! nowadays, trusting people is hard...especially friends. please do not fully rely nor fully trust friends coz you'll be disapointed over and over and over.
2006-09-05 05:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait to trust someone then when you are possitive then yo will know if they lie
2006-09-05 05:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by Logan I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drama
2006-09-05 05:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by Surf n' Snow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*hug*
2006-09-05 06:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Savannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋