my girl won't have sex with me but like once a month ,and i do everything for her like take care of her clean, cook, work hard everyday,bought a house for her and everything. is she cheating?
2006-09-05 05:31:26 · 16 answers · asked by Da..KINGizHeRe!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Man she is so lucky to have you ! She could be cheating. I would be asking her questions if I were you. You deserve someone that is better to you. You obviously love her & she should also be showing you love !
2006-09-05 05:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by דְבוֹרָה Devorah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her sex drive isn't all that high. Why not sit down with her and calmly make this a topic of discussion? Don't accuse her of cheating, but just say you were wondering why you both don't have sex more than once a month. This is why it's important to find out the person's preferences BEFORE you have sex with them. So you'll know before hand what they will and won't do, and how often they'll do it.
2006-09-05 12:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by rach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a great man. There could be something going on and it may not be cheating. You should just talk to her. Some women just aren't really into sex. Is there anything in her past that you know of that may be making her feel that way? I have a friend that was raped and she doesn't like sex at all. It could be MANY things. Just talk to her.
Good Luck!
2006-09-05 12:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by ******* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just have a really low sex drive. You say you also cook and clean. Maybe she is depressed. Have her speak to a doctor about this. Don't think the worst of her(cheating), until you explore all avenues.
2006-09-05 12:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you're too good to be true but anyway let's start with you trying to talk to her about your thoughts and ask her if there's something wrong.BTW not wanting sex doesn't mean that she's cheating maybe she doesn't enjoy it or she's having some troubles or some health problems you should find out cause even if you'll buy her a plane nothing is gonna change beside don't spoil her cause you want to have sex with her spoil her cause she deserves it.good luck
2006-09-05 12:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by celine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a lady; but it sounds as if she is taking advantage of your good will and generosity. Only twice a month is something couples who have lost the spark do after years of marriage and raising kids together. The real question is; why are you with her. What does she provide that keeps you in the game?
2006-09-05 12:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just tired, or has something else on her mind, sit her down and have a talk with her ask her straight whats wrong. Has she always had a low sex drive or is it a new problem? Good Luck
2006-09-05 12:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Squirrel ♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are stimulated (excited) by emotional love... if you're also giving her emotional love, along with doing all those chores & she's not giving you the love you need, then I'd say she doesn't love you... for some strange reason.
Maybe she's not cheating, but she's certainly not caring about you/your needs.
You could try asking her what her most important needs are... & provide those needs, then see if she gives you the love you need... if she doesn't, then you'd be wise to find someone who does care about you/your needs.
2006-09-05 12:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are being used. Sorry but it's time you dropped the user and found someone who can appreciate all you do. Good Luck!!
2006-09-05 12:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like something is wrong with her.1.Either u ask her whats going on and sit and believe or 2.Do some private investigating for yourself thats if u dont trust her.
2006-09-05 12:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by sheka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋