2006-09-05 05:28:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he hid it tried to delete from computer history but i found it anyway, i think its the way hes been sneaky thats killin me!
2006-09-05 05:32:46 · update #1
I asked him the last time he did it to let me join in but he said he thought it was sick! but does it anyway!
2006-09-05 05:34:14 · update #2
It upsets me bacause we have 2 kids and he doesnt want me lukin at men so why shud he want to look at women
2006-09-05 05:35:50 · update #3
I just think i deserve a bit more respect
2006-09-05 05:37:43 · update #4
Why does it upset you?
It isnt doing any harm. Why dont you join him and look at it together!! It could be the start of something more exciting???!!!!
2006-09-05 05:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With you there girl. You do deserve more respect.
I got a new satellite complete with all the channels I never thought I would see.
The first time one came on late at night I sat there like an idiot with my mouth hanging open for at least half a minute thinking" This is what men pay good money to watch?".
There was absolutely NOTHING sexy about it.
It was cannibalistic towards women's bodies.
A form of from a distance rape.
He has an addiction and he needs help. For his own sake leave alone yours.
Good luck!
2006-09-05 05:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Christine H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viewing some porn as a couple can bring excitement to a relationship, however when only one of you is into this sort of thing it can be very destructive. You can't make him stop, and you say he does not want you to view these things with him, so what can you do?. He may feel that the sort of thing he is watching is too hard core for you and he may even be ashamed of the things he feels drawn to watch. This is upsetting you so you need to seriously talk it through before it causes damage to your relationship. Most things are ok between consenting adults but if one is not happy with the others tastes things quickly go down hill.!!!
2006-09-05 06:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, don't get your panties in a bunch. I have been married for almost 30 years to a man who thinks he is being sneaky and watches or visits porn sites all of the time. It is just something that guys do. No matter what you say or do , it is their human nature. So don't take is personally, think of it this way, at least he is just looking and not going there. Right? Right! Everybody needs their own space. My daughter went through it too. So don't think that your not pretty enough, or not pleasing your man, it is just a guy thing.
2006-09-05 06:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that's his little annoying thing you know when your in a relationship he has something that annoys you and vice versa i know it upsets you but be honest would you rather him do it for real with other girls or have the pleasure of knowing it stays on the computer frankly i don't see a problem with it.
It's basically just sex maybe watch some with him or actually buy him some you might enjoy stop freaking out you might push him away, i would say is if you can't beat him join him it might make life a little bit more exciting... you never know
2006-09-08 03:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Akeysha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a man, the main attraction of a woman is mainly visual.
Hence the thriving business of table dancers, strippers and porn.
Women do not realise that just because their man looks at other women with desire, especially porn, this is in a totally separate department in the man's brain, and is in no way disrespectful to the woman in their life. Be thankful that your bloke has a healthy sexual appetite, and once the fires of desire have been stoked by viewing porn, this should show results in the bedroom.
2006-09-05 05:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by bodhidhamma7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keefybabe is right Honey, there really is not any harm in it, my man does from time to time, not every hour of the day or anything BUT its just part of their nature and the more you get upset about it the more secretive he will be and that's the disrespect NOT the porn...just go with it Honey, he is at home with you and not out POKIN prostitutes, that's what happened in the old days before porn mags and the such like off the net....he being very harmless don't worry
2006-09-05 06:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by Denise W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men look at porn my ex bf looked at porn he thought deleting it would get rid of it but it doesn't since the porn was still on the computer it shows how stupid he is thinking you delete it and it's gone not all men look at porn my husband and I don't like it we don't like porn we have eachother and that's all we want some people like it and some don't if I were you I would put a block on my computer if you want more details on how to do that email me GBRADFIELD77260@cinci.rr.com
2006-09-05 07:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liss, I know it upsets you, but you shouldn't let it. Most men look at porn and it doesn't mean that we don't love our partners or girlfriends any less, it's just stupid fantasy and certainly not real.
It's horrible for us men when we have to keep things a secret from our partners, so don't force him to lie about it or keep it underground or ultimately that will destroy your relationship.
Really it's no big deal and the real thing beats the mags and dvd's anyday!
2006-09-05 05:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by James M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better he is looking at Porn than out in the real world, men think very differently from us, don't take it personally.
As others have said watch some together you never know you may just enjoy it!!
2006-09-05 05:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by horsegal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is extremely no longer that huge of a deal. he's not any longer lusting after those females, he basically enjoys seeing the act. He ought to nicely be doing a lot worse, so i imagine you need to provide him a wreck. He probable supplies a pass on some issues he would not like you doing.
2016-12-06 11:05:35 · answer #11 · answered by slomka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋