How to face jealousy ?
2006-09-05 05:25:03 · 11 answers · asked by citizen high 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Jealousy was something I had to deal with to. I had to realize that the things I was allowing to go through my head were not true. The person I was being jealous over loves me with all her heart and I trust her. So whatever you may be dealing with just think about how much you trust that person. Do you love them and do they love you? If its someone you love a lot you may need to confront them and tell them how you feel. If they truly love you they will understand how you feel and help you by there actions. But don't push them to change. That will hurt more than help. PRAY!! Ask God to help you deal with what your going through. He will stand beside you always. I wish the best for you.
2006-09-05 05:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by jesus_freak_sm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am jealous within reason. Try taking a jealousy test online. I did and it showed that my level of jealousy is within reasonable limits.
Although I keep my eyes open, I give someone my trust when they've earned it. If they betray that trust, then I am very watchful and a little uneasy until they earn my trust again.... IF I stick around.
2006-09-05 05:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... I never used to be a jealous person, but for some reason I am with my boyfriend. We have been dating for almost a year. I don't know why I feel this way because he is a very good man and I know he loves me. Sometimes something just doesn't fit right.
2006-09-05 06:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by hollie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im always finding myself jealous for one reason or another..specially when it comes to one of my very close friends....We were intimatly envolved and then decided we would just stay friends because he had also been involved with another women who was just a friend as well...but that didnt last we was fooling around again and then in june they got closer again and I was left to watch them cuddle and kiss but when the other girl wasnt there...it was me who he cuddled and kissed with... anyways...back to the point...sometimes you just cant help but feel jealous...even more so if you really care and love someone it only makes it harder then. but if you really care about someone you just have to put them feelings aside a little and wish them the best....not to say I wasnt grinning inside when he told me their friendship was on a downhill ...( Im such a bad person...)
PS- there is no cure for jealousy...its nasty but its what makes us human
2006-09-05 05:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by imjustme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if that's no longer your fault, i visit understand why you're quite hurting. My 2 sisters, even if we are youthful than your kinfolk, are frequently similar. i imagine that's merely even as 2 siblings of three have something in worry-free with one yet another, that the different doesn't have, then it brings them mutually, and pushes the different out. even as i change into youthful, my 2 sisters shared a room, and that i had my personal, which, for sure i'm no longer complaining about, yet that they had their little chats and video games, etc, and they continually stuck up for the different if we argued. on the different hand, i change into each and every each and every now and then jealous of them for diverse causes, and that i'm confident at one time or yet another you've been jealous of your sisters, so that you'll likely understand what they're feeling, even if in case you won't be able to understand why. the in worry-free words ingredient i visit point is in case you both all pass out for a meal or drink or something, or you invite them both to yours. you should per chance chat it with the help of with them and merely attempt to ask them why they seem so jealous of you. you should describe what you stated on your question, and tell them that you want them even if, etc. desire all of it works out for you. strong success xxxx
2016-10-15 23:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Do urself a favour n try to figure out y u feel that way. dont give into, it analyse it. Pick it apart or rationally discuss it until u can be rid of it.cuz it'll only end in tears if u act on it!
2006-09-05 05:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight your own insecurities. i do not feel jealousy, not because am confident but rather am tooo lazy to suffer the side effects :)
jealousy initiates paranoia and paranoia leads to misery.
2006-09-05 05:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's an undesirable but unavoidable emotion.
2006-09-05 05:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by malcy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes
2006-09-05 05:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yess
2006-09-05 05:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by xoxarielle14xox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋