...when I'm having sex with my husband?
2006-09-05 05:17:06 · 32 answers · asked by Hormonal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No it isn't, as a matter of fact, it is perfectly normal. Do you think that he is always thinking of you? If you have a stong relationship and a healthy sex life, you know there isn't anything wrong about fantasy, as long as it stays that way.
2006-09-05 05:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by auntb629 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all, I think most people at sometime or another do fantasize about someone else when having sex. Just don't act on them. Two to One he does fantasize to ;-) It's just normal sexual behavior. Also sure you can share it as long as it's not your next door neighbor or co worker but a true fantasy love from the movies or tv, sure you can share it!
Now if its a fantasy about something instead of someone, you can share this with your hubby could be he would at least give it a try or better yet like it!
Hey Todd that's is true never, never shout out the wrong name *laughing.
2006-09-05 05:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by zennya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong and it's not to be encouraged. Concentrate on your husband while at it. Fantasising needs focus and energy too, so don't focus on the fantasy and it will go away.
2006-09-05 05:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, thats fine. I think most of us do. I'd be tempted to try and find out why you are fantasising about someone else - is your relationship lacking in anything?
2006-09-05 05:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's sad if you are making love with your husband but are thinking of another person, that's just dirty. Why are you with him, if someone else is on your mind? I think its OK to fantasies when your sitting in traffic and your thinking of you high school boyfriend or something but damn during an intimate moment with the person you say you love? that's wrong
2006-09-05 05:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by EsYoDaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No fantasising about other people is quite normal as long as it doesn't go any further
2006-09-05 10:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is unwise. Mind blowing sex is only truly achieved when lovers sacrifice themselves for each other. If he isn't keeping your attention you should talk to him about what feels good to you. If your husband is good in bed, like mine is, honestly, I'd rather pay attention to my hubby. If I didn't want to visualize him in bed, I wouldn't have married him. You should start thinking more about him and focus less on yourself. Interact with him. It will make your marriage happier. trust me. and when you get right down to it, do you want him fantasizing about another woman when he's in you?
2006-09-05 05:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, all men do the same.. like u fantasise about me, my name whilst sex with ure husband.. do it tonight..
2006-09-05 05:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by tariq k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no.If it makes the sex feel better to fantasies be like Nike ''JUST DO IT" literally. But don't tell him that could be the end of your marriage. And don't say the wrong name.
2006-09-05 05:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by Betty Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope - we all do it. He does it too. It doesn't need to be an issue as long as you don't actually Have sex with someone else. Enjoy your healthy, imaginative sex life!
2006-09-05 05:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by Susan L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋