My boyfriend and I have sex on a regular basis... on average about 5-6 times a week... and everytime I have came... but recently it has taken me a while to... we always switch positions and do it different ways... so its not like it is boring... but since this is happening my boyfriend thinks that it is him... that either it isnt good for me, or I am not attracted to him anymore which is COMPLETELY not the case.... I think I just try and enjoy it more, and keep the good feelings on... any ideas, tips, or advice I can get to help me with this problem??
2006-09-05 05:16:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
stresses out about anything lately?
Try a glass of wine before. Or start out with a massage first for both, not only will this relax you, but get you in the mood.
And if all else fails and it totally isn't you man, just fake it sooner to make him still feel like a man until you straighten yourself out.
2006-09-05 05:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by designsbyniki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur libido is down which can be from stress or even phases in ur menstrual cycle. Try chocolate or oysters. lol..Other than that, a lot of foreplay usually does the trick. & don't focus on cumming...just try to enjoy it and get really caught up in the moment.
2006-09-05 12:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't make that be the only reason to get intimate. Just sharing eeach other is enough and the rest is a bonus.
2006-09-05 12:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by diturtlelady2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like good old boredom to me. That's what usually goes wrong in a relationship - you get bored with each other and nothing is exciting like it use to be. That's the reason so many people cheat in their relationships, they are tring to find that excitement we all had in a new relationship.
2006-09-05 12:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stress or you're thinking about it too much.
2006-09-05 12:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by watch4whales 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be hormone imbalance
2006-09-05 12:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by JS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋