On Friday night I went out with my friend and her bf. We were drinking and smoking a lot. Everytime she left the room, her bf tried to kiss me. I didn't kiss him back, and I even told him to stop. Then, he would say he was sorry, and try it again the next time she wasn't looking. This is were it gets confusing. I'm pretty sure she is bi. I don't know if she knew what was going on, and was hoping I would be open to it, or if he's really that stupid. If I find out that she was involved, I won't be mad, but It will probably be really unconfortable for both of us. On the other hand, if she didn't know, she deserves to.
2006-09-05 05:10:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Im bi... ma man wouldnt go about it like that.. he would do everything in front of me. I think her bf is sneaky and was tryin to get with u. Plus if your frineds bi u should know.. and if she wanted to get with you.. she would talk about it to you first.. at least this is how i would handle. it. I think you should tell her.. and if she was in on it.. dont let things get unconfortable.. just tell her how u feel.. if yoru into it great.. if your not.. shell respect u either way... but tell her good luck
2006-09-05 05:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by misskaykai 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she knew about this I'm guessing he wouldn't be putting the moves on you everytime she left the room. Honestly,if she wanted a threesome with you I'm sure she would talk to you about it first. Why wouldn't she? After all you're her friend. But I'm not there so I'm not going to assume anything. That's just my opinion. As to awnser your question, yes I would talk to her about it. At least then you know for sure what's going on and obviously if he's doing this behind her back, she deserves to know. Just let her know you're not trying to steal her boyfriend. Good luck!
2006-09-05 05:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Paige 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are her real and true friend you will tell her i cant believe you would even think of not telling her if you don't tell her you might as well just not ever talk to her again and not be friends at all she deserves to know wouldn't you want her to tell you if it were the other way around
2006-09-05 05:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You appear to be in a very tricky situation .
Try and see your friend next on her own and ask causally how she is getting on with her Boyfriend without mentioning the evening in question to see how the land lies .
If you can discover that she wanted to know if you were up FOR it and you are not interested give them a very wide birth.
2006-09-05 05:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he waited for her to leave the room then she probably had no idea. If she was initiating then that would be a big hint that she wanted this. You really should mention it because she is your friend and do you want your friend with someone like that? If he hits on you, he will do it to other woman.
2006-09-05 05:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. The guy sounds like a jerk. Anyone who would try to get something out of his girlfriends best friend is a jack***. Who cares what her preferences are she should still know about the guy.
2006-09-05 05:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by frecklzface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky situation. Just tell her, that's the only way to really find out. If she's close to you, she'll appriciate it and hopefully not asume anything. Also, I would steer clear of her boyfriend.
2006-09-05 05:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo! Answers Chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her anyway. if you dont and she was totally aware of what was going on she might still get upset with you. chances are she didnt' know. adn she should know what a jerk her boyfriend really is. if she's a good friend then you should tell her.
2006-09-05 05:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by sexy-cecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her. Dont you think she deserves to know that this guy is a dirty dog?
You would want to know if your boyfriend was doing that.
2006-09-05 05:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her. she doesn't deserve it or do you like it when he tried kissing you. for one thing ur nor really a good friend
2006-09-05 05:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by AngelCakes 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋