My sister in law is a very sweet talker. When we go out together I have noticed she speaks only once & the work is done (anything/everything)
How do i learn to do the same thing??
I need to learn quickly as I am facing some problems!!
Thanks.
2006-09-05 04:59:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think your sister-in-law is thinking while she is not talking. It is focused thought on what she wants and how to get it.
If you can focus your thoughts and choose words well, you can learn this, but if you don't focus well and words don't come easy to you, it may take more time because there is more for you to accomplish.
While you are not in the pressure of having to come up with what to say, rehearse scenarios and consider several things you might say and listen to how you think they will be received. Consider how you would want to be talked to and you can come up with concise things to say that will be effective. Talking less in itself makes people listen closer because they don't have to filter out what is important and what is just jibber-jabber. If you only Jibber they won't have to ignore the Jabber and probably all of it while they are at it.
Good Luck!
2006-09-08 08:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by Ken C. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont say eg. "get me a glass of water" instead say "can u get me a glass of water please?" if they donnt lister then dont push. theyll feel bad and give it to u later. ofcourse u can repeat it 2 times. remember donnot repeat more than two times.
hope it works.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-05 05:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ewnet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Understand the other person always...
2006-09-05 05:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by A 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, to be that, u would hav to be an extrovert.. and frankly, beyond that, u would hav to follow ur instincts..
2006-09-05 06:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dirac 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be yourself don't try to be like another it only makes things worse.
in most cases.
relax... take it easy... be you not her.
2006-09-05 05:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk less and sensible , thts it. good luck.
2006-09-05 07:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by naturelover 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Always be yourself....
2006-09-05 05:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by dreamy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋