my borther and his girl having sex, i am scard! anyways what should i say?
2006-09-05 04:56:02 · 34 answers · asked by Cheyenne M 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i'm 14 and it was in my bedroom i don't knock on my door!
he's 17. not scared s.c.a.r.e.d
2006-09-05 05:00:56 · update #1
should have joined in and helped out your bro
2006-09-05 04:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
You are going to have to say something to him if he was in your room. That is gross and disrespectful. You shouldn't have to knock on your own bedroom door. You can either confront him about the issue and resolve it with him as far as him being in your room, or you can tell your parents what he did and he will get the ultimate punishment and not do it again for sure. Walking in on people, whether friends, siblings ect. happens. The best way to avoid situations is to knock on the door before you open it to make sure that you are not walking in on something like that happening. There is not much that you can say or do about the situation other than to walk back out and close the door. You can apologize and not address the situation to let it blow over and get things back to normal. You might want to suggest that he lock the door next time in his own room. Next time it might be your parents walking in on him and his girl.
2006-09-05 05:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by busyliz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this right he was having sex with his girlfriend in your room when you were at home.....you don't have to say anything except if I was you I would say stay the hell out of my room....and I suggest you put a lock on your door on the outside so he can't go in when ever the hell he feels like it........he disrespected your space.........that is gross if I caught my sister that there would be hell to pay.......and you don't have to knock on your own freakin door nobody does that..........god its your room why would you knock its not like oooo i just remembered I should knock on my door just in case my older brother is having sex with his girlfriend......who is the hell is going to think that.......i know I wouldn't.......BUT THE GOOD THING ABOUT THIS IS YOU NOW HAVE SOMETHING YOU CAN HOLD OVER HIS HEAD.....I'M PRETTY SURE YOUR PARENTS WOULDN'T WANT HIM HAVING SEX LET ALONE IN YOUR ROOM.....use it while you can and as much as you can.........he was wrong to do that......you should tell him how you feel.......good luck.........:)
2006-09-05 11:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, are you scared or just freaked out??
i would just ignore what you saw and move on. it'll get easier each day and eventually, you won't even think about it.
it's pretty akward to walk in on that situation, especially when it's your brother, but it's o.k. it happens and just ignore him for a few days and you'll start to feel back to normal soon.
take care.
EDIT:
o.k. "scarred" like scarred for life....gotcha!
at 14 you're old enough to just go to him and tell him to stay out of your room and that the fact that he was doing that in your room is disgusting.
then, i would try to push it out of your mind and just move on.
if you can't then talk to your parents about it....you didn't do anything wrong, so there's nothing to worry about,.
2006-09-05 05:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by joey322 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a bit embarrassing - but you have nothing to be embarrassed about!! HE was in YOUR room, remember? If they wanted privacy, they should have used his room, or gone to her house or something. It'll probably be a bit awkward between you two to start with, but if you just forget about it I'm sure things will be back to normal after a while.
2006-09-05 06:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to to stay out of your room first of all. The images will probably creep you out for a while but you will get over it.
Now that you have some dirt on him, use it.
2006-09-05 08:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i get scard like when a porn pop up comes up on my screen! i wanna cry... why dont u go tell ur mom how old is he thats the question 1st.....
2006-09-05 08:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by why hello there 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing...learn to knock on closed doors...
Ask a parent, but you are obviously too young to be on here & asking this kind of question.
2006-09-05 04:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by fairly smart 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why would your borther be haveing sex in your room?That is sick hope you stripped the bed.
2006-09-05 06:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by mcdanieljoanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol what did he say when u walked in??....
well you should of like..embarrased him or something..becuase its his fualt for doing it in YOUR room..and u shouldnt of knocked on ur door cuase u dont have to knock on ur ownn door.
unless u share a room with him...then..he should of done it in .like..her house or something cuase he knew that thats ur room.
2006-09-07 11:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no need to be scared...just tell him though that you will be a nag and tell your parents if you see him in your room again. Wash all your bed sheets.
2006-09-05 06:30:43 · answer #11 · answered by baseballmommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋