i have a very kind boyfriend he has a great personality but he is short and thin he is even shorter than me just a little but he always take care of me and treats me with love and respect he asked me to marry him but i have a little problem with his look i dont know what i should decide . he really really loves me he had change lots of his bad habbits and his bad treatments just for me and he is so kind and i dont want to break his heart i dont khon what to do what would youy do if you were in my shoes?
2006-09-05 04:37:56 · 8 answers · asked by baran a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
100% agreement with facelessangel!!!!!!!
you're saying you managed to change him and you still aren't happy?! maybe you should save him some heart-break...end it now... you don't deserve some one who treats you right if you're that shallow!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-05 06:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by bigmammarush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this man turn you on physically? If he does not then I could understand why you are hesitant to marry him. However if you do not want to commit to him simply because of how you think others perceive him then that does not say much about you and your own character. If you love everything about him looks should not matter at all. There are a lot of men out here that treat women really bad, you should be more than happy you found a respectful man that is willing to treat you good. You may never find that again.
2006-09-05 12:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Bee Biscuits 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really wanted to marry him this would not be any sort of issue for you. Obviously you do not truely love this man. Let him go and find someone who really does care about him and you will be happier to find someone that you love also.
2006-09-05 11:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why rush things? if he truly loves you that much he will wait until you are 200% ready; but of course being ready doesn't mean every circumstances will be perfect 'coz that's impossible, it just means you will go for it with gusto despite the imperfections either with your lives or with his looks, or both. whatever you decide on i wish you the best.
2006-09-05 11:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by noseypokey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to be unhappy for the rest of your life..marry the guy.
2006-09-05 11:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by bostoncity_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats more important to you. a good person or good looks. very few people are blessed with everything. if u are happy with everything else then in my opinion ignore the looks.
2006-09-05 11:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all why are u dating him if you don't like "his look." to me that sounds a like a hypocrite. don't u think. trust me you cannot change the way he looks and if you not like it then leave and let him find someone that loves him for who he is.
2006-09-05 11:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by dawn_m262001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and end up with a good looking guy that treats you like c r a p?, NO!, marry him!
2006-09-05 11:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋