Last night, me and my live in boyfriend were laying around doing homework and watching tv, he pulls out my tag from my underware and says "Who are you trying to fool, you dont wear a medium!" I was hurt, so I told him he had a small weiner!! What would you have said?
2006-09-05 04:29:04 · 29 answers · asked by Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would have said " have you lost your crazy mind", of course I wear a medium, can't you see these panties on my a**. "I'm not your x girlfriend who was a double bagger" A bag for her face, and one for yours in case one breaks you still don't have to see her. And "let me tell you something... Mr. Little man, You will not be seeing me in these or out of these panties anymore." "You better run not walk out of this relationship if you know what is good for you." You just lost the best thing that was in your life. Now get out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-05 05:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by junebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very rude. He was WRONG to open his mouth. But it's probably something akin to something he's heard somewhere else. Someone else said something similar and it got a laugh...on tv, say. Now hopefully he's learned that that cr*p doesn't work anywhere but in tv-land. maybe he'll grow up and start valuing you and your good taste in clothes, recognize your beauty without having to play lines at you. Now go start the apologizing by asking for forgiveness for hitting below the belt with your own words...
2006-09-05 04:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by CHos3n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have said do you think you are the picture of perfect fitness? then knocked his teeth into his throat. He must have a mental dysfunction because you don't go around sewing medium tags in your underwear you just cut them off if you don't want people to know. My man has never criticized my weight.
2006-09-05 04:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. well, i've been having issues w/ my guy too lately. for some reason he doesn't realize that saying i'm "HEAVY" is the same thing is saying i'm "FAT". grrrrrr! oh what else did he say? "when you lose your 20 POUNDS".....!!! i was like, "are u saying i need to lose 20 lbs??"
bleagh! i talked to him and told him that 1) ANY woman does not want to hear anything negative that has to do with weight. it's just too sensitive. 2) if he complimented me more and made me feel more appreciated in general, perhaps i wouldn't get so hurt when he messed up and made stupid comments like "ur heavy".
he said he was sorry, and that it makes sense when i spelled it out for him. but until then, his brain doesn't "click". i told him, how come player guys KNOW how to treat women right and make them feel good, but can't commit...and nice guys can commit but they don't know how to treat a woman right?????! so he said he would practice.
good luck~
2006-09-05 04:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um..first I just want to know how old you are, Are you even old enough to live with your boyfriend? (if you are living with parents, probably not)... 'cause that might be the root of the problem.
But if you must know, I would have said "Just what exactly are you implying?" wait for a bullshit response and then say "Well that hurt my feelings, try to use some tact."
2006-09-05 04:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by Yahoo! Answers Chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Thumper said in the movie Bambi "If you got nothing nice to say, don't say it all" That was not very nice of him. I would think about what he said and keep that in mind for future remarks like that. And if he keeps it up, I would talk to him about it, or leave him. You don't need to hear things like that or be with someone who always has something negative to say to you!!!!!!
2006-09-05 04:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an ***, sometimes I think men talk out thier ***, I would have said "Who are you trying to fool, your not sleeping in the bed tonight go sleep on the couch!"
2006-09-05 04:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lilmisssassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your stuff and get out .... no just kidding but really come on they are on your body ? Think about it what is his perception of you is? do you wear stuff too tight? do you wear sizes that are too small are you unrealistic about your body type? If you are saying no to this than you need to check this relationship Figure out what his expectations are and can you meet them/or are you willing too.
2006-09-05 04:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by Florida Dawn 13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! That was sooooo mean! I would have also told him something that I thought would hurt him. Just out of reaction. Then, I think I would have told him how much he hurt me. I think you need to talk to him. That just isn't right!
2006-09-05 04:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by ******* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long you guys been together? Is he imature or what? I gnore him maybe he'll go away........or melt into the couch and you can sit on him....either way if he loves you and respects you tell him he hurt your feelings and you need respect or he can take a walk ...........Good luck!
2006-09-05 04:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by crownvic64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋