Love does exist after marraige - only it slowly changes - before marriage you are IN LOVE with the other person - as you spend time together you may fall out of love - but you then LOVE the other person - which is much stronger than "being in love" - but sadly ...no butterflies - loving someone is far deeper than being in love.
2006-09-05 04:37:00
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answered by misssy 1
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Every couple is different. My first marriage was a bust from the beginning. There isn't any love story in anypart of it. Boy meets girl boy knocks up girl ----shotgun marriage--abuse---divorce. My second marriage has been nothing but a fairy tale and the love is still there and we show it everyday. Arguments are few and far between. There are still love notes, flowers, kisses, thank yous, door holding, special looks, and lots of sex. We have seen the worst of eachother and still love like there is no tomorrow.
2006-09-05 14:19:41
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answered by Christina W 2
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Love lasts if both partners are willing to work at it. And fights only begin when there is a big to-do about control, money, etc. But if both partners are good communicators, then love / marriage can and does last as you can talk openly and without hurt feelings.
2006-09-05 11:56:20
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answered by GirlinNB 6
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I don't believe love ends with marriage. I think it is the lust that gradually ends because you have there all the time. That is why i am a firm believer that couples should experiment and do what they can to keep the sex life active. Lust is very often confused with love, and it is a sad fact. But both are needed to sustain a happy marriage.
2006-09-05 11:35:08
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answered by Just Another Guy 4
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Like my marriage that ended in divorce I think we get married for the wrong reasons. One being we don't want to be alone so we settle and then find out to late the mistake you made. I'm dating a wonderful man who talks to me about getting married I want to marry him but I just want to be sure its for the right reason. A marriage with love, trust, respect, and friendship. I want to have a love affair with the man I marry. Good luck :)
2006-09-05 11:36:14
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answered by hollie 3
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I've been with my husband for 8 years and I still love him to death. He's a major hottie who cares about me like no one else ever has.
We have a few arguements every once in a while but nothing is perfect. It makes Us stronger!
2006-09-05 12:00:07
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answered by Prissy 2
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If you work at it Love grows and intensifies it can become even better. Remember anything worth having is worth working for.
Even if you did not get married a relationship changes.
2006-09-05 11:36:03
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answered by robyn o 3
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marriage is a social structure. don't confuse love with it.
2006-09-05 15:55:35
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answered by Joshua K 2
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more work then play and it can't be balanced.. and yet most times the grass is not greener on the other side.. but still prefer being single..
2006-09-05 11:45:01
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answered by Anonymous
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because the woman thinks that a wedding ring gives her the right to double her pre-marriage weight.
2006-09-05 11:34:57
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answered by Anonymous
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