2006-09-05 04:12:57 · 19 answers · asked by khushe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what should i do when my husband dont want to stay with me because of his parents.
2006-09-05 04:41:36 · update #1
Love marriages do succeed and are very successful. You are to busy looking at the ones that don't work.
Do you really think that those truly in love with each other would divorce. I think not. You need two in love for a marriage to work. If both love each other divorce would never happen.
Those cheating on each other do not truly love each other for if they did they would not cheat.
2006-09-05 04:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People get married thinking that if they love each other, everything will work out. It isn't so.
Marriage is not a promise to feel the same way about a person for the rest of your lives. If you think about it, this is an impossible goal. People change and evolve. During a marriage, you spouse will be a friend, a lover, a confidant, a parent, and occasionally, a disappointment or a foe. Your feelings will not remain constant.
Marriage is a promise to put your spouse first as much as you can and to work on the relationship as often as needed to maintain and to improve it. If you don't do this, you will lose touch with who your spouse really is during the marriage, and that's when marriages fail.
2006-09-05 04:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean? If you mean why dont marraiges built on love succede? Than the answer to that is that you have to have something to fall back on. Like the fact that you know without a shadow of a doubt that you are supposed to be married to this person. If you dont have something to fall back on when times get tough and you are not so much infatuated with your spouse anymore you wont make it.
2006-09-05 04:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who said that? my parents marriage has been lasting for 25 years now and it IS based on love
2006-09-05 04:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have God in your marriage then it is even more difficult. God brings trust, respect, love, honesty, etc. A lot of people don't have this, so marriage ends up in divorce. It's terrible
2006-09-05 04:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause they don't want them to, not enough talking, to much arguing, or just don't want each other, or they want to go out and find someone new, it's not love marriages, it's crazy people, you take a vow, and some people don't mean their vows, and that's what's so wrong with marriages today, that's why no one wants to get married, divorces cost to much, and i believe if they don't want to get married, then they know it an't going to work out, so why be with someone like that..........
2006-09-05 04:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by miss.d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it come like fever and fever is over most of them goes with bad effect.
2006-09-05 04:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who said they dont.they do.my parents hav had a luv marriage n they r happy bein 2gether
2006-09-05 04:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because in love marriages ppl r usually blind and expect too much from each other. then, one fine day, they realise they're not getting any of what they really expected, they break up!!!
2006-09-05 04:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in america? succeed* that's only half true. Half do. Cuz people are ignorant, dumb, can't make it work, divorce over the smallest thing.
2006-09-05 04:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋