what u think
2006-09-05 03:54:49 · 6 answers · asked by geecliff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OMG! Phhhfffttt! I feel myself getting "stupider" just trying to read your question! I can see you are a highly "edumakated" person! My advise - learn to form a sentence correctly then learn to spell.
2006-09-05 04:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they do mean them.Think on it - fruedian slips mean - you re thinking one thing and say what is on your mind not the topic.
SO when you get mad you do not use Rational thought but just say it , so therefor you do not stop and think will this hurt the person or would it cause more issues >
You just brlut it out and deal with it later .
think about some of the fights between your freinds while they are out , 2 girls fighting over a gu yand one screams out well at Least I did not screw ( incert boys name here ) in the backseat last weekend ! Same goes for guys ,So yes people do mean what the ysay when they are angry.
2006-09-05 03:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question.
Yes and no. I think there's a kernel of truth to it, but of course they're enflamed from the excess of emotion, so it's nowhere near a logical and rational critique of you as a person, but instead an aspect of you that is blown out of proportion to convey the truth of how they are feeling at the time.
Think about when someone who loves you says "you're perfect." Are you? I doubt it. That's not a professional evaluation of you as a human being, it's just an honest expression of how the person is feeling about you at that time.
2006-09-05 04:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people say mean things that they dont mean when they are mad..they just wan the other person to feel the way they feel...its not a good thing to do but it happens..and the best thing to do is apologize for saying those mean things that you didnt mean ..and explain the reason you felt the need to say those things..
2006-09-05 03:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by gel_is_now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because it is easier to say mean things when you are angry or provoked. One usually apologizes out of embarrassment for having such thoughts and because it's not nice to say mean things. When I'm angry, the raw truth absolutely flows out.
2006-09-05 03:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on the person. If you have one of those people that are very open then they may not have ment it, because of the openness you'd already know!! If you have someone that keeps their feelings bundled up, Then they probably ment it.
2006-09-05 04:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by Wanda R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋