me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half now and he cheated on me 5 months into our relationship with one of his exes.and this is the same ex that he has cheated on every girlfriend he has had.does he rekky want to be with her do you think?since he cheated with her lways.but now i moved to oklahoma with him from minnesota.so im 800 miles away from everyone and everything ive ever known and im starting to worry,will he cheat again since he did before.do guys always cheat again if they have in the past?what should i do/dump his *** and go back to minnesota so i dont have to worry about it or stay and see if he will cheat again?i just need sum answers to give me at least a little piece of mind.please answer with good advice and detail.
2006-09-05 03:38:24 · 23 answers · asked by jenny p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, there is a very strong chance that he will do it again. Most men that are unfaithful to a girl once are usually unfaithful again. I suggest you dump him, it sounds like you will always wonder about this guy, so why cause yourself the extra pain. Life is too short, go find someone to treat you good!
2006-09-05 03:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by mixemup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes once a cheat always a cheat! What details do you want! He is more into his ego and what he wants then you and you deserve better. If anytime this guy decides that he for whatever reason is entitled to betray any girlfriend then he shouldn't have one. He didn't care enough to be honest, moral or true! What other reason do you need? When the guy or girl your with is this selfish you should run!
Atleast you found out, staying with him after that well?
If you don't demand better for yourself you won't get it, now go find a real man and be happy! You deserve much better!
2006-09-05 10:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience i can say that guys who cheat will cheat again and now that u are far away he thinks that u wouldn't realize it if he cheated or not...!U can give him a warning...like..i am far away but i can learn if u are doing anything...wrong!Or u must say to him..i need time to think things over with my relationship with u...because i don't like people who cheat...!I will seriously think about u!
He will put him into thinking and then u will realize if he cares enough about u he will surely stop doing anything wrong..and try talking to u more and stuff!I think that everyone deserves a second chance...!Be patient!
I wish u all the luck in the world...!
2006-09-05 10:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-07 04:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by internetoptimiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly... the answer to this is ALWAYS YES. Once someone cheats, they will do it over and over again. Ever hear the old saying about German Shepherds tasting blood... That once they taste the blood of a wild animal... they will always hunt for wild animals. Well... The same goes for cheaters. Once they cheat, they will always cheat. Its a personality trait and they will continue to do it forever. Dont stay for a loser like him... You will find someone who doesnt cheat at all. I would be willing to bet money that he has cheated before on other girlfriends. NEXT time you start to date someone, find out if they have ever cheated and if they have... Dont bother with them. Good luck
2006-09-05 10:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that you have to go through with this, but the best thing that you can do is to dump his a$$! You will never be able to trust him knowing that he already cheated and that he will probably cheat again. Mr. Right is still out there waiting for you and he'll be someone that you KNOW in your Heart that he won't cheat on you! Good luck in your decision!
2006-09-05 10:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just like Christmas will be Dec. 25th, he will cheat on you agian. What is the point of hanging on? Is he your soul mate? You don´t sound like a cheater so I suppose he really is not your soul mate. There are 6 billion people in this world, out of which 3 billion are men. Out of those, there must be at least 100 million of those single and in your age bracket so get someone better!
2006-09-05 10:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Nathan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if he will move with you that would prove his love. If not he wants to be with her. Remember it is an ex. She doesn't want him she uses him. But why should you suffer till he learns that. I don't think he would just go out on you with anyone else though. He is not over her. She is toying with him. You are better than that. Give him an ultimatum (which I usually don't believe in) Go back home with me or stay here with her. Good Luck honey, it's for the rest of your life so do no settle for less. :-)
2006-09-05 10:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not married .... my best advise is you should have left him then the only time you should work on a relationship that hard is when you are married .and if he believes he will only do it because he is not married he is lieing to him self. Yes inside that girl is the one who got away. that is why he can't stop cheating with her. you need to decide to do you want to be in a secure relationship with a man that is completely in to you and always loving you only or insecure unhappy and emotionally tired by a relationship it is that easy breaking up is hard but it is your life you are in control and you have the life you make for your self what kind of life do you want?
2006-09-05 11:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by Florida Dawn 13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont even have to read all this. if he has cheated then he WILL cheat. so dont blame him when it happens again... bc you know it will and yet you stay... go home. I made that mistake and it took me 3 years to finally leave. I left family and friends. he cheated the whole time and i wasnt allowed to leave. once a cheater always a cheater. if he didnt love you enough to stay faithful the first time then why would he ever again. open you eyes!!!!
2006-09-05 10:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by howdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋