I mean the effort and bitterness of a the fight. The not speaking to each other, the time wasted not enjoying each other. If that person was to be tragically taken from you, would you not feel like "I wasted this time being upset over him not doing the dishes" or whatever?
2006-09-05 03:27:35 · 11 answers · asked by Chris D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i've been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years, getting married next July...as if you care...but we have an agreement: if "it" aint worth
splitting up over, we don't even fight/argue about "it"...works like a charm!!!! we also have a very old-fashioned relationship...
2006-09-05 04:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by bigmammarush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are totally correct, but fighting over silly stuff is just a part of human nature. there will be many who won't do the mistake but even more that will start up a fight based on the stupidist and simplest thing. the best thing in your situation is to remind that to yourself all the time when you may be close to getting in to a similar situation. Sometime we figure all that tantrum was for nothing in the middle of the fight but we won't do anything about it just not to be the first one to say "i'm sorry" or simply not to "lose the fight". We need to remember that, just like you say, we could be losing that loved one tragically the next day and could end up hating yourself for what happened the day before.
not overreacting and forgiving are 2 best traits in a person that would minimize your chances to get into stupid fights with loved ones.
good luck...
2006-09-05 03:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tulu C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters no I'm not in the middle of a fight with anyone. And yes fighting over stupid things are not worth it, but sometimes it takes an argument to get things settled. That's why you should never leave or go to bed without resolving it first.
2006-09-05 03:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even have additionally been in a sexless marriage for nearly as long as you have been sexless. i've got pondered leaving too. My husband has a continual ailment to boot and he additionally has a low libido (or testosterone) and he refuses to get scientific help for it, so i'm caught all on my own honestly. I do love my husband, yet i don't be responsive to what share greater years i'm able to pass on living like this. our babies are youthful than yours. they may be honestly devastated if I left their father, it is why i won't be in a position to stroll away rather elementary. additionally the reality that I nonetheless love my husband deeply complicates concerns. on a daily basis, my thoughts are torn and that i don't be responsive to which thank you to show. Do you nonetheless love your husband? If the respond isn't any, then pass now...while you could. yet once you do, then via all skill stay. various spouses nonetheless help their husband or spouse whilst quickly as they arrive down with self-inflicted scientific issues (like lung maximum cancers from smoking, liver issues from eating, etc.). This could not likely be any distinctive.
2016-10-01 08:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by lutz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why we are fighting. Me and my husband never fight over anything really important... So as long as the fights are basic boring we disagree on this fight... then YES> Its absolutely worth it!
2006-09-05 03:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is WAY too short for all that nonsense.
Get with someone that you can actually ENJOY being with, and who enjoys being around you without all the drama.
2006-09-05 03:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad just left without saying goodbye, we spoke about 5 words to each other the hole time he visited, i'm not gunna see him for another year! i feel like such an idiot
2006-09-05 03:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
little fights are normal and will happen... to everyone. As long as you can make things right and grow.... you are on the right track.
2006-09-05 03:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us silly humans.Its always worth it during the fight,especially if I'm right.But then its almost always after the fact that we realize how stupid it was,and,yeah I would hate to lose him to anything before during and after a fight,but,hard as is sounds,thats life...............
2006-09-05 03:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by sandy v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't find it worth it! Live life like everyday is ur last that's what I say...
2006-09-05 03:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋