you know , i'm in love with this person for almost a year , we talked too much about our life together , i'm 23 yrs and he is 34 yrs , he is not in my country , he came to see me many times , and each time he tell me that he will meet my parents soon , but till now he didnt . he gave me many execuses , do u think he is serious ? shall i believe him . by the way , i love him from my heart , he is my 1st and last love
2006-09-05 03:23:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Any dude who gives constant excuses for not doing something is up to something. Would YOU treat him the same way he is treating you? This is your life. Don't waste it. You should be happy with someone you can trust, and there does not sound like a whole lot of trust in that relationship.
The fact that you are asking a bunch of strangers for advice tells me that you think he's up to no good but you don't want to believe yourself.
Listen to your gut, little sister. Believe me, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Dump that jerk and find yourself a real man. My first 'one and only true love' was just using me. I was quite naive, but I learned. I got hurt. I got over it. Stop allowing him to string you along. Any man that would do that is no man at all.
2006-09-05 03:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by raptorsmoonrising 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the same pakistani guy you are talking about in the family question.. If he asked you to marry him how come he has not meet your family. What exactly goes on when he meets you. How can he visit you with out meeting them. Do you live alone?
2006-09-05 11:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP! He lives in another country! He's making excuses! What do you think might be wrong? Perhaps he's already .....MARRIED!!!!??? You better drop this cheater BEFORE he meets your parents and you'll be totally embarassed. Don't believe a word he says.
2006-09-05 10:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the big deal about meeting your parents? And why hasn't he wanted to meet them up until now? Is he scared of them because he is 11yrs older than you, different race, what?
2006-09-05 10:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋