My girlfriend has just had a little girl due to a one night stand with her best friend now she wants mea to leave her alone but i'm scared that something will develop between her and her best friend. I love her so much and she has told me that they are noy a couple and she only loves him as a friend but i cant help it what should i do
2006-09-05 03:20:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave her alone, she has issues and it will only cause you more problems.
2006-09-05 03:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are getting the short end of the stick my friend. Do as she says, leave her alone, and if and when she is serious about you, she will show up.
You sound like a pretty sincere and caring person who might be a little too easy to take advantage of. Be careful in this situation, she is in a desperate and selfish place right now as a new mom, and might even be reduced to a very primative thought process; that being, "Do whatever it takes to get what I want and need for me and my baby."
Let the other fellow step up to the plate and provide for his child. You carry on and take care of yourself for a while.
2006-09-05 03:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one because as you said "you love her". Right now you may not realize what is going on, you may not even understand why. But just remember this "Everything happens for a reason". This could end up being one of the best things that could happen to you, the woman that will love you unconditionally, support you and provide a loving home and family for you is on her way. You just have to go thru this heart break so that when you see real love, you'll recognize it. Keep your head up. Better is on the way.......
2006-09-05 04:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has the right to be close to him coz she did have his child but tell her that you have a relationship with her and you are still her b/f so she chould also not ignor your needs.
Help her look after the child show her your there and there is no reason for her to ignor you.
Remind her and tell her how you feel that's the best you can do.
Good luck* Smile~`*
Show her ur more of a friend and you have moved on coz you see she is trying her best too.
2006-09-05 03:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love this girls so much, back off and let her have her baby and the happiness with the babies' Daddy. She obviously is trying hard to spare your feelings. So, be a gentleman and let her go. She needs the babies' Daddy right now.
2006-09-05 03:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you need to cut ties and find a woman who wants to be with you and only you..
She has a baby with her best friend, these friends with benefits tend to never end..
your looking at heartache on its way..
2006-09-05 03:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing 2 do she already told u that she is not interested. u can only have faith n trust that all will work out. dont let jealousy ruin a good thing.
2006-09-05 03:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation has "trouble" written all over it. I know it hurts, but you need to move on.
2006-09-05 03:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋