My son is 9 yrs. old and lives in Ca. with his mom. A few years ago his 26yr old half brother decided to put the boots to him, has hit him, thrown him and has attacked his mother numerous times. Normally I would have taken matters into my own hands and dealt with the jerk, but as he is my sons half brother it complicates the handling of the situation. He was warned, then his mother was told that if it happned again I might do something I would regret later. After a final episode of violance, and threats made towards me about my son, I contacted His parole officer and had him returned to prison for the things he had done. I refused to go to the morresy hearing which would have incarcerated him for a long time as he is my ex's son and I really dont want to see him in jail. I live out of state now, (not because of) and he has recently paroled back to his moms house. As of last eve. I called to talk with my son and the threats began again. What do I do? I'm scared for my son and his mother
2006-09-05 03:20:09 · 5 answers · asked by Distressed Father 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
call the guys parole officer, then call the police and child welfare and the call your attorney and go for full custody...apparently your ex has put your child at risk with her choices! She can fend for herself you however need to get your child out of that situation! good luck!
2006-09-05 04:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if you want to protect your son, call the parole officer AGAIN and follow through. What the hell is wrong with you? You have to see the kid dead or beaten to a pulp before you'll go to CA and have the man put behind bars? You can't straddle the fence on this one. You have to take some legal action. Now, DO IT....you may not see your kid alive again if you don't. Godloveya.
2006-09-05 10:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it in again. At least you'll have a documented record of the incidents.
Attend the hearing and recommend that that he not be paroled back into that house again.
Or move your son and his mom out with you that way he can't get to any of you until his sentence, probation time is completed.
2006-09-05 10:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by sierrajames1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a pussy and take custody your son and teach that punk a lesson..and if you cant do it..convice your son to state that the puke moledest him and he will just become the belle at the prison ball..stop being a coward and if need be get a gun..or make one..robert brown get a good book on making homemade guns..or use your car..come on ...stop being a wuss. go the hearing make him more afriad of you than him bullies are cowards..
2006-09-05 10:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself back on that phone to his PO and take action against him! And stop being scared of going to any of his hearings, you need to let him know you're not scared of him and will do anything to keep his *** behind bars!! You also need to let others know when it comes to your son's safety, you sure will step forward to the plate and if other's don't like it, they can kiss your ***!
2006-09-05 10:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋