i want to spice up our sex life but im really shy and dont know how to go about it.i want to talk dirty and all that good stuff.i just need a little help frum the guys here.what are some kinky,sexy,bad girlish things i could say and do to really turn my guy on?i want to just blow his mind cause he hasnt seen a kinky side of me yet.niether have i though,im sure it will be great once i let my inner kink out.help me please.i dont want him to get bored and cheat on me or something.
2006-09-05 03:17:15 · 10 answers · asked by jenny p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you want to blow his mind, I would start by asking him...sure, you will get some decent (and stupid) answers from here, but you aren't trying to get us turned on. Just be open with him and see what interests him, I bet the instant you show some interest in making things more exciting that he'll open up with you and tell you A LOT without you having to give up your surprise plans. Once the mood is right, just unleash it upon him and give him the best night you can.
2006-09-05 03:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice here is to visit your local "Stag Shop" or place where you can get some kinky outfits to wear. I suggest something in rubberlatex and go all out with that and all too. Don't forget the handcuffs too.
Surprise your husband with when you put the new kinky outfit on and tell him you would like to try something new...in that department...
Play the part of the infamous "catwoman" and act it all out with him. He will smile and maybe even laugh but inside that will spark the animal in him. It always does to the males... me included.
Shyness means that your a thinker type of person. In fact there isn't anything wrong with that at all. Tell him that too. He will understand when he can see you in a sexy outfit to start things off.
Tell him also from now on to expect the unexpected in the love life part of your lives and that will also keep him perked too!
2006-09-05 03:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to ask him but still there may be some things he's not going to say he likes because it's difficult to tell people your deep down desires in fear of rejection. Perhaps an example or two. Ask if he likes to swallow his own ***? It could be direct from his penis or could enjoy licking it from your body or some object? You can get very creative with that. Maybe a strapon could spice things up? When all else fails love and kindness go a long way. Good luck.
2014-09-14 07:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by Matt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So people who save people are stupid? Go into the middle of a Hospital and say that to all the Doctors. Anyone who saves lives with the intent of saving lives would be classed as a Hero. And apparently, the asker would not want to be saved from a burning building from a stranger, wait for someone they know, even if the building collapses on them before they can get there, much better than being saved by a stranger.
2016-03-26 22:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to take control. Tell him what you want. Say stuff like go down there. Oh like that. Tell him you want him to lick the back door. Guys just don't naturally know what a girl wants.We don't have esp. Say harder or softer or slower or roll me over. It would blow his mind if you let him watch while you took care of things yourself. How's that for an answer?
2006-09-05 03:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you do something that you are not sure of, be sure to ask him if he likes it. It is allright to be kinky with someone who likes it, but it is a real turn off for someone who does not.
2006-09-05 03:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how much u love his c*ck, how big and strong he is, how much you love it when he takes control of you and your p*ssy, tell him how much you want him,
ask him to spank you because you were bad, call him daddy
ask him to pull your hair or pinch your nipple when you are doing it doggy style
wake him up in the morning with a b j, moan out his name when you give him oral, or when he is about to come in your mouth moan, hmmn, hmmn, hmmn or tell him to come on your face or breasts
that should be enough for now
2006-09-05 11:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to spank you! Tell him to pin you down & have his way with you! Ride him & be SO LOUD!
2006-09-05 03:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
leather, yelling his name, bringing in another girl
2006-09-05 03:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to grow up. If you have to ask then maybe you are doing something your not suppose to be doing.
2006-09-05 03:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 10⤋