Man that's a mouthful! 10 pts for the best reason.
2006-09-05 03:09:52 · 17 answers · asked by Fenrir 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One day you will realize that you have pride. You will get angry to yourself for the time you spent with waiting for her, and probably will get angry to her too for not seeing your self-sacrifice.
One day you will learn that bot of you have different fates. You will understrand that your experince should have been resulted different from love. After admitting that she is a person of an another world you wont search for her.
One day you will learn to forget everything about her. When that day comes you can be free from love. As Friedrich Nietzsche
said "Hope in reality is the worst of all evils because it prolongs the torments of man." When hope disappears love starts to fade away.
A man can totally forget, but firstly should learn to not to hope. In the days full of love a man can not believe that he will forget the lady one day. It is a matter of psychology.
When needs not met man suffers. This is a rule of economics. If you have a need that will certainly not be met till your death, you will forget about and give up that need and direct yourself to another needs. For example I want to make a space exploration, and suppose that it is impossible; you can accept the unnecessity of thinking and hoping every day about space exploration. Because of knowing that it is impossible to be met I start to forget about it. The same procedure operates when love is in question. Because it is a need too.
When there is a man and a woman; without being loved, love is meaningless. Except in the case of mothers and fathers' compassion and love for their children.This type of love and tenderness is instinctively driven. Mostly the density doesnt changes. But in our case love is motivated not instinctly toward a certain person. Can be like an ocean but evaporates as well.
2006-09-05 03:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by Saido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely! Different reasons i suppose for different people. Maybe the person in question is already committed. Maybe the person is from another part of the world.It could be that the person has lost the one person in which was true love and does not want to love again.
2006-09-05 10:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i'm going through that....it really sucks...but you just have to make the best of it and hope maybe one day if its meant to be you'll be together.....I've just learned to think like wow that's a really awesome person and I'm just glad that I had a chance/experience to meet someone that amazing..and it makes life more interesting and worth living to be able to feel love...just be happy that you were able to "feel the love" because i'm sure theres some people out there that haven't ever felt in love before...
2006-09-05 10:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by SuperChic3955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be in love with this really great guy, he was my best friend through high school, we went out on a few dates and after the 4 date i knew i was in love with him. The thing is, he was gay or is gay, ether one. He told me wasnt sure at the time if he was gay or not and he told me he was only trying to test his limits, he told me he was sorry for useing me like that and said he would all was be my best friend.... its be a few years and we still talk and we are still best friends, i still love him on some level..... but other then that we are still just friends.
2006-09-05 10:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl17017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, that kind of love in possible. However, its not healthy for you because if they cant love you back you are only setting yourself up for a broken heart. Dont go there. You deserve someone that can and will love you back and that will be with you! Good luck
2006-09-05 10:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. There's even a term for it: Unrequited love. Its defined as "love that is not reciprocated, even though reciprocation is deeply desired."
I've included a link to Merriam-Webster's definition of "unrequited" as well as the Wikipedia site for the term "unrequited love."
As for the reasons for unrequited love? I suppose they're all very personal, both for the person who loves and for the person who is loved.
2006-09-05 10:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, quite possible. Experiencing it myself. It's beond your control and very frustrating. Confession can be very thearpeutic. Just tell this person how you feel PURELY TO HELP YOU GET OVER THEM, not harbouring any other expectations. you'll be surprised at how relievd you feel. I tried it myself. Good luck!
2006-09-05 10:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Sasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you can. love is a 2 way street and if she can't love you back then what you feel is probably infatuation or lust. there is someone out there that will share your love and loyalty. i hope you find her before you waste any more time "loving" someone who can't or won't love you back
2006-09-05 10:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by notyours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not.i've been in love with a person who really treated me right.we broke up because he told me that he loves me and i'm too perfect for him,we never had a fight,as in never. but he loves his first love best.i loved him more bec of his honesty.even though we broke up,i'm still there for him.but now,we already have our own families,i don't see him anymore but deep inside,i know for a fact that i still love him.
2006-09-05 10:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Luisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can love him,cause i believe that u can't help to fall inlove to someone,u can nver choose who's the one you will love.But i will just love him in silence.I will not be a hindrance on his happiness.Coz true love can sacrifice for the happiness of the one you love.
2006-09-05 10:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋