I have made friends with this guy over the internet. We just chat and it is all innocent. I tell my husband everything that we talk about. Would you consider this as cheating or not......and no nasty comments please......
2006-09-05 03:08:57 · 12 answers · asked by CLEVER 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have met before but it was long before i got married......my husband has no problem with us communicating as he accepts that I have a friendly, outgoing and flirty personality...thats what attracted him in the first place....
2006-09-05 03:18:20 · update #1
its not cheating to talk to someone of the opposite sex. According to Wikpedia:
Cheating is defined as an act of deception, fraud, trickery, imposture, or imposition. Cheating characteristically is employed to create an unfair advantage, usually in one's own interest, and often at the expense of others. Cheating implies the breaking of rules. The term "cheating" is less applicable to the breaking of laws, as illegal activities are referred to by specific legal terminology such as fraud or corruption. Cheating is a primordial economic act: getting more for less, often used when referring to marital infidelity.
So as long as you do nothing you feel is wrong, then no.
2006-09-05 03:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Becky 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmm....well what do you think? Do you have any sexual thoughts of this guy? The reason why I am asking is because talking could this guy and possiblity flirting could lead to much more. Just because you tell your husband doesnt mean that its ok. Deep down he may think of it as a friendly friendship over the internet or may have some jealous thoughts that hes not expressing. The fact that you even asked is it cheating already puts it in perspective that you have thought about having a love affair with him and talking about with your husband makes you feel better. But to answer your orginal question....talking to him cheating?? No, I dont think it is, but taking to the next level of actually meeting him, might be. So as long as you keep on the net, i think your fine!
2006-09-05 03:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not keeping it secret from your husband and he is OK with it, it's not cheating.
However, you must think that something is wrong or you wouldn't be asking the question. Why do you feel uncertain? Focus on that and talk with your husband about it. If you cannot talk about the uncertainty with your husband, then you should probably let go of the online friend.
2006-09-05 03:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with a guy who in no way desires to talk to you? and because while is chatting with the choice intercourse cheating? Are you flirting , doing cyber intercourse, or attempting to get with them, then this is cheating. If not, then i don't be responsive to the place the hell you have been, yet verbal substitute with the choice intercourse isn't cheating, so do not hardship, and once you're boyfriend would not refer to you, then consistent with danger you're able to leave HIM, and locate somebody who will refer to you so which you will not could desire to be asking those kinda questions, and chatting with others adult adult males thinking you're cheating..
2016-10-01 08:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by lutz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as what you are saying to the guy is not something that you would not want your husband to know about, then it is not cheating !!!
2006-09-05 03:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not cheating as long as it stays innocent and you are open with your husband..
2006-09-05 03:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by malanina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your husband is ok with it, then do it.
if he doesn't like it then don't.why break up a marriage over an internet friendship.
2006-09-05 03:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it "cheating" but neither is it a road you should be going down anyway.
2006-09-05 03:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by Zelda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not cheating unless you start making plans to meet him somewhere or have cybersex.
2006-09-05 03:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by jacemo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think so. As long as it doesn't go far like meeting up for sex
2006-09-05 03:12:17 · answer #10 · answered by toots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋