i REGRET THE ABORTIONS BUT IT WAS RIGHT AT THE TIME. IM SCARED AS IVE HAD THE USUAL SORE BOOBS, BACHACHE, AND SLIGHT CRAMPS OCCASIONALLY. IM NOT DUE TO HAVE MY SCAN FOR A FEW WEEKS HOW CAN I MAKE SURE IM HEALTHY AND LOOK AFTER MY SOON TO BE NEWBORN
2006-09-05 02:50:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Congratulations! There is really nothing you can do to ensure this pregnancy doesn't miscarry, so just try to relax and don't get overly stressed. Miscarriage is common, but there is no real evidence to suggest a link with previous termination. The theoretical risk might be a weakening of the cervix, but the vast majority of miscarriages do not occur for that reason. I would look to the future now and not dwell on the past. I hope it all goes well for you! (And have a chat to your midwife or doctor about contraception after delivery as well!)
2006-09-05 04:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by drblonde 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Right at the time means no Regrets. Obviously it wasn't okay then or you wouldn't feel guilty for it now. Your doctor should be able to tell you some stats on how many women that have multiple abortions can carry a full term baby.
2006-09-05 09:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't regret what you did, it was probably best for you. The sore boobs and back come with being pregnant and is not unusal. If you start to spot then that is a cause for concern. I'm sure you will be fine. Congrats on your pregnancy. Eat right and get plenty of sleep because when baby is born you will need it :) A baby is the greatest gift you will ever have take care of him or her and cherish each moment you have with it.
2006-09-05 09:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Allison M 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Your discomfort and pain is probably due to old scar tissue. You are growing and stretching on the inside and scar tissue does not stretch very well. My Aunt had 4 abortions and then had 6 complicated wanted pregnancies. She was able to have 3 relatively healthy children. Your biggest thing for now is to rest and eat right. Everything else will happen the way it is meant to happen.
2006-09-05 10:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by murph_ltt 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry (not really for you, but the 3 precious babies you killed) I hope you have learned through this, so that their beautiful bodies were NOT killed in vain! Don't you like birth control, and NO abortion is not a form of b.c...Was it that you would rather have a few minutes of pleasure than use b.c.? Was it that you would rather have an abortion than endure a few moderate side affects of birth control? I will NEVER understand this...You make my heart ache from the inside, again, I hope you have learned your lesson!
2006-09-05 23:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by yoohoosusie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Congratulations! Firstly stop worring stress will not help you or the baby. Sore boobs are the early signs of pregnancy so there's no need to worry. Speak to you doctor over these concerns and he or she will settle your mind. Having abortions will not affect you from having any problems if the future. xx
2006-09-05 17:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by janine e 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
all a miscarriage is is a chromosone missing there is no actual proof that a miscarriage is caused by any other thing apar from falls and things like that if you go to your nearest hospital and go see someone at the EPADS early pregnancy and dating scans and tell them that you are worried they will give you an early scan i know because me and my wife have been through the same apart from we lost ours so dont worry be happy good look hope everything is ok
2006-09-05 09:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by rico 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Listen to what your doctor tells you and you won't go far wrong. The important thing is not to worry because worry causes stress and that can lead to problems. Good luck.
2006-09-05 12:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by paul b 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you had three what the hell was your doctor thinking of. Surely contraception would have prevented your pregnancies, or is abortion contraception for you.
I wish you all the best in your pregnancy, I hope everything is plain sailing. But when you see your wee one you'll see what you got rid of.
2006-09-05 15:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by ruthiebeth 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
3 abortions ??im not here 2 judge u a mistake can happen 2 any1 but 3 mistakes is careless!!! go 2 ur maternity unit an while u there ask about CONTRACEPTION ..
so many women cant have kids and so desperately want them and ppl get pregnant willy nilly and ABORT
learn from ur past mistakes..please!!
2006-09-05 10:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by sam 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋