would you have a threesome if your man asked you to (you, him , and another girl)? knowing that the other girl is a clean girl and everything would be safe?
2006-09-05 02:47:17 · 29 answers · asked by James Henderson 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know this is a common fantasy for us males. The bad news is that only a few of us have actually done it. My advice to you is not involve your wife or serious girlfriend in on this issue unless she brings it up. She will very likely be left feeling that you think she is not enough to satisfy you sexually and will end up fighting feelings of insecurity and jealousy, which could end up destroying your relationship. Even if she allows it and doesn't have the previously mentioned problems, you might end up with some unexpected problems. What if your girl finds out that she enjoys the girl more then she possibly imagined? Do you understand where this thought is leading?
Finally, if you feel that you must have a threesome or moresome, take a trip to Thailand or Philippines. There are MANY women willing there to take care of this need without the involvement of love or a relationship. Please no flames... he asked a legitimate question and I feel he needs a honest answer from one who knows.
By the way... it is fantastic, but I would never ask a serious gf or wife to do this. Just not smart. You have to be considerate of your loved one. This is a fantasy every man should have BEFORE he is married just so he never wonders.
Finally, above all, respect your wife's feelings. NEVER make her feel like she isn't enough woman for you. If you do this, you will regret it and the regret will be much worse then the fun of a threesome.
2006-09-05 02:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not. I am happily married and the sex between my hubby and I is AWESOME. Why would I mess that up? Bringing another person into the picture, whether it be male or female, would just cause a bunch of unwanted problems and jealousy, besides that, sex is supposed to be a wholesome thing that you share with the person that you love, it's not like candy at a parade that you just throw out to anybody, I LOVE my husband and would do ANYTHING for him, but if he asked for a 3some then I would divorce him, to be honest with you, cuz that is just him asking for permission to cheat and screw someone else...SORRY! Don't mean to go all off on ya! :)
2006-09-05 22:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no. Why would anyone?
Am I not enough?
Do I not make him happy?
What if he likes her better than me?
What if her boobs are perkier, her butt more shapely?
What if she's a better lover than me?
Will he leave me for her?
Is he cheating on me?
Do I bore him?
Does he think sex is more important than my feelings?
He must not be serious about our relationship. This is all a big game to him.
Maybe I should cheat on him just in case he's cheating on me.
Don't even ask. The mere suggestion of a threesome will hurt most women.
2006-09-05 09:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would as long as he gives me a threesome with him, myself and another man....everything has to be 50/50 he wants something well I want almost the same too....
2006-09-05 09:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They always end up getting jealous of one another.
The cool thing about women though is that once they feel they have removed the other woman as a threat, they don't typically hang onto the anger associated with the initial jealousy, whereas men are always angry about another man touching his woman.
2006-09-05 09:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by InternetPosterChild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't. What he and I do in the bedroom is between us. Porn is cool though. I'll dress up and try to make it exciting that way. But to bring someone else would make me feel like what I am doing isn't enough and I know I keep things fun!
2006-09-05 09:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if your ladie want another guy you know if he were clean and everything. come on ..guy..the only way your ladie is going for that if she into girls..good luck..and maybe she might be a fag hag and will you return the favor..bend over ...and smile..
2006-09-05 10:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will dump him! and be wondering how many threesomes he is having with this so called other clean women. he has obviously already been with this other girl otherwise, how can he be so sure that she is so clean.
2006-09-05 09:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by manuel j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have in the past when I was younger and not involved- but now I would never- I am in a committed relationship(getting married) I wouldn't want to mess that up
2006-09-05 09:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. but i do know women that have had such fantasies- they never turned out well. as a matter of fact the relationships that i know about always came to some demise (be it ...bad or fade away) there is something missing if you have to go to the extreme of inviting another person into your bedroom.
2006-09-05 09:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋