2006-09-05 02:45:41 · 23 answers · asked by Mary O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Check his mobile.
They will be keeping it out of your way and receiving a lot more texts then normal.
Also, they may not always answer your calls, or if they do sound different/nervous when you ask them where they are.
If they live with you, they will be out a lot and if they don't live with you they will not visit you as much.
2006-09-05 02:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start searching through everything, ask alot of random questions over time and see if the answers vary.. For example : if ur partner says they've been at JC Pennys or something for the last 3 hours , if u wait several days and ask again where they were that day but unsuspicously when u ask, if they say they were somewhere else .. because they forgot the excuse they used the first time.. check cell phones, and phone bills, if they are finding excuses for either u or them to leave the house more so then usual, if they become suddenly emotionally distant from you.. and if all else fails , start showing up where they say they are going to be and check to see if they are really there..
BUT if all of this fails to show u any results or proof of cheating STOPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP and realize that ur searching for problems that dont exsist..
2006-09-05 02:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell: Does not make eye contact with you
His schedule changes for no apparent reason
Makes excuses for working late and being tired all
the time when he never was before at the same pace
Stops doing the small things with you, walks
shopping, kids activities, watching TV
Buys you expensive gifts (guilt trip)
Find Out: Ask him straight out
I would not suggest following him or calling his work or going through his personal property (even though I'm a firm believer that married couples property is jointly owned), or even going to his friends and asking them for that just puts them on the spot and chances are they will lie for him making them the bad one if you work out your problems.
I think a wife is always the last to know when a husband cheats but find out she does. It's a gut feeling we have. Time does tell and before the truth comes out the whole household goes through a radical change. Nobody wants to admit to cheating but if you know your husband and his attitudes and gestures you will know as soon as you just straight out ask the question. I wouldn't pick a time when he's running out the door or ready to fall asleep or watching a program on TV. I'd try to ask as spontaniously as I could, out of the blue when he would least expect it. Chances are he won't think of a million excuses right off the top of his head. If he denies an affair and you feel his body language has not changed but your gut insists there is something going on but you can not afford a private investigator you can set him up. A nanny cam or tape recorder in your home may be one way, you can set it before leaving the home in an inconspicuous place and watch/listen to them when your alone. Under a seat in a vehicle a tape player can be set to record (just get a tape that records as many hours as possible or activates when there is voice).
2006-09-05 03:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your partner is cheating on you dump them lol. Normally a good way of noticing is any change in behaviour and we are not talking about the normal moodswings and stuff. What i mean is stuff like he/she never liked going out and is now out every weekend, they dont come home all the time and they run out of battery on their mobiles all the time. I suggest that if you think they are cheating then trust has been lost and a dumping is swiftly on the way. Best thing to do i think lol
2006-09-05 02:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by atuniagain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless your paranoid or a jealous person they say if you suspect it its normally happening, look at their routine, has it changed do they seem distant, do they take the mobile to the toilet ? theres lots of things but the thing i like to do if i want the truth from my partner is look into their eyes and ask them what you want to know, if they lieing then their pupils will get bigger, it happens very quick so u have to close and watch, mad i know but hey try it good luck
2006-09-08 11:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by melly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cell phone bills are available online...you probably can get the password.
If his patterns are changing, try changing your.
Asking is best. He might be a good liar, but the 'right ' questions can get interesting replies.
2006-09-05 03:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a cell phone GPS him.
From my past experiences, follow your instincts. If you think your partner is cheating, they probably are.
2006-09-05 02:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember once my sisters husband was acting strangely, so she asked him what was wrong, his response: “I really don’t know honey, other than the fact that I have this empty feeling inside”.....yeah, he was smitten over a co-worker of his and they did get married two years later. (That "empty" feeling: he missed her and wanted to be with her 24/7!)
2006-09-05 02:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jon R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their behaviour, lack of interest with the family, check their phones, internet, find out why other half comes home late, any money unaccounted for?!
2006-09-05 02:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by sweetlikehoney_73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch them in bed with another person.
2006-09-05 02:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Rudebox77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋