I have noticed he is extremely sexual can he be the unfaithful type?
Thank you:-)
2006-09-05 02:43:27 · 46 answers · asked by cookielove1430 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All,
Thanks-a-million for all you answers! I def want my marriage to last forever so I will do what it takes to make him happy...
2006-09-05 03:19:10 · update #1
It's completely normal for newly wedded couples, one or the other or both, to want sex all the time.
1. You are celebrating your love for each other.
2. You are experimenting with the "newness" of it all. Even if you've been together for 10 years, it's new all over again after the wedding.
3. The novelty of being able to have it whenever you want from the person you love the most in the world.
It's something most all newly weds go through, enjoy it while it lasts. In another 6 months, you may be wondering where it all went. With time, you two will find your own way and frequency for having sex. I doubt that he'll cheat on you just because of an active sex drive.
2006-09-05 02:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is very normal. Most newly married couples have sex 3 or 4 times a day the first year, or until the kids start coming. My parents have been married 53 years and still engage in sex at least twice a week, according to Mom. Communication and physical contact is the secret to a long and lasting relationship. It's when you lose those 2 ingredients in a marriage that you need worry about if he will become unfaithful
2006-09-05 02:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has a high sex drive right now its perfectly normal. No this does not make him the unfaithful type. You are newlyweds enjoy it while you can it may change later. If you can't keep up with him then talk to him and tell him how you feel. Communication is the key to a good marriage. Have fun.
2006-09-05 02:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by smile4u 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think he is unfaithful. He just want to prove his love to you, and to get his satifaction as it is okay now. I was like that when I got married 9 years ago. And we did it a lot. Even 2-3 times a day on weekends and holidays, when we don't have to work! We're still married, and we only do it a couple of times on weekends. It'll slow down in time.
2006-09-05 03:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal for him to want it every day. The whole marriage thing is brand new to him and he wants to experience every last second of it that he can while you two still work around the "honeymoon" phase. Keep the relationship new by still going out on dates and such so that you don't fall into a rut, otherwise the next question you ask will be "Why doesn't my husband want to have sex with me anymore?" Good luck and congratulations on your new marriage!
2006-09-05 02:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may still be in the 'in-love' stage...meaning that he is romantically obsessed with you. This can last for 2 years or more.
Another possiblity could be that you have become a sex object to him. This is great for him (feels like you're doing it with a playboy model)...but it can be hollow & empty for you.
Guys connect emotionally through sex. Perhaps he has a lot of emotional stuff that he needs to share with you, but can't find the words. Sex gives us relief from that need....for a while.
Try to find out who he really is, deep inside & share yourself with him. Sex will be deeper, & the more you humanize with him, the less he will objectify you.
2006-09-05 02:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah, I some guys like it every day. But if your husband is that type, what enhaces sex is putting it off for a while. Things stay fresh, and obviously there is less a chance for things to be mechanical. If it already is, encourage him to use his imagination. I'd imagine there are plenty of books out there on any subject of sex you want to research to avoid the mechanic kind.
gluck
2006-09-05 02:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal, he loves you and wants to make love to you.
please your man! geez you need to because we don't ask for much. No hes probably not the unfaithful type but if you don't satisfy his sex drive then somewere down the line (a couple years) hes gonna get fed up. Hes gonna spend the rest of his life with you and i'm sure he does everything for you so whats a little nookie gonna hurt.
give it up woman!
2006-09-05 03:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by BOOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. id worry if he wasnt sexual with you. you two just get married your newly weds. He loves you Dearly. .I dont think its a unfaithful type. lol I get annoyed. that my husband wants it every other day and its been 3 months. lol.. And im the one that wants it Every day lol and im not unfaithful. He just has alot of love and wants to make love to you a whole lot. be thankfull. but if its to much for you.. just tell him.. You want to make love every other day.
2006-09-05 02:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_poetic_fire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most defintely it is normal for almost every guy!! It does not mean he will be unfaithful. Have some FAITH yourself. IF you have issues about this, then please talk to your husband. Communication is the most important thing in a marriage or any relationship for that matter.
2006-09-05 02:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋