ok i have been married now for five years. and the other day i think i saw my ex. i still have very deep feelings for him. what should i do i have been trying to find him just to see how he is doing. what should i do? any ideas would be nice. NO JOKES PLS.
2006-09-05 02:37:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been with my man for six years and this past summer i heard from a friend that my ex {whom I almost married and was madly in love with} was about to get a divorce. We were always really close even after we broke up. He had called me before he got married and asked me if I'd send him his senior pics. B/c i still had feelings for him and thought alot of him, I thought i was doing the right thing by sending his pics back to him. I didn't call him, no letter, nothing. The one night my ex pulls in my driveway, me my fiance and one of his friends were sitting there on the porch. He gets out of his truck and it was dark so we couldn't see him until the closer he got to us. He asked for me and I was like yeah, still no clue that was who it was. He said this is Lucas, my mouth about dropped. the last person in the world I thought would pull in my driveway. He asked us a question and my fiance answered it for me. He thanked me for sending the pictures back, and hopped in his truck and left. Well you probably know what happened then, my fiance and I got in to it. I never told my fiance that I sent my ex his picture back. Cause' I knew he'd get mad but look what happened. It came back on me anyways. I know the reason why my ex showed up in my driveway. He wanted to someone to talk to. He is going through a divorce and we could alwasy talk about anything and be honest with each other. We could alwayy help the situation. We were friends even after we broke up. I have been trying to get ahold of him to see how he is doing. But I don't want my fiance to find out. Which I know he will if I do. I live in a small town and everyone knows everyone and nobody can keep a secret. I know how it is to have feelings for an ex. Who don't, not unless the two ended on bad terms. But if you are happily married, then don't ruin it over your ex. Not unless you really feel that it is worth it. You can email me if you want. Maybe we could help each other. Wow I didn't think anyone else was goign through something like this besides me... Good Luck!
2006-09-05 03:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kasie Faith 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you were happy with your marriage, the feeling for your ex would have been long gone. Do you really have feelings for your ex? Maybe you are just remembering some of the good times you had. He is your ex for a reason. If he was so great you would still be together.
2006-09-05 09:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by danadeville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it would be perfectly natural for you to still have feelings towards your ex, however you have to remember that he is your ex. and your married to a new man If the shoe wer on the other foot and your hubby was trying to look up an ex how would you feel?
2006-09-05 09:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by ducksixty8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are trying to ruin your marriage then go for it. Just remember, the grass is not always greener on the other side. There are lots of women out there who threw away perfectly good husbands for foolish reasons and when they came to their senses couldn't get them back. Just giving you food for thought.
2006-09-05 09:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not be very happy in your marriage....if you are being "ignored" or not given enough attention ...that is what is making you look for an old flame...I would suggest that you leave the other guy alone...you made your choice...now live your life as normally as you can,.
2006-09-05 09:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget about him and concetrate on your marriage unless you want to sit with another ex. The feelins you say you have for him spells trouble. Forget him
2006-09-05 09:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not contact him. It is perfectly natural to still have feelings for someone you once loved. Try and remember why you aren't together anymore and why you are with your husband.
2006-09-05 09:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by bluegirl63065 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let sleeping dogs lie. Forget the past.
2006-09-05 09:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget ur ex...u made a commitment to ur present partner.ur ex is in the past.........leave him there!
2006-09-05 09:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by up urs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my uncles ex just left him for her ex and shes pregant with his kid and im pissed leave ur ex alone and remeber y ur with the guy ur with now
2006-09-05 09:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by seth c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋