i have had so many men get in contact with me from this site and they all just seem to want to chat about sex!
i dont do anything to lead these guys on or take the convo in that direction but all the guys seem to go there!
i am getting a lil annoyed now!
2006-09-05 02:34:08 · 56 answers · asked by princessnicola23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah, me too. Men are idiots.
2006-09-05 02:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Smiles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dudette. In my vast experience of being overly horny i know exactly why guys act the way they do lol. In the past i was never really intersted in what girls had to say it was just an attractiveness thing and i was always more intersted in what she looked like naked lol. These days (having been through some rotten relationships) i've found that i've become a very good listener and am more interested in how mature and intelligent a woman is. Your also starting badly by trying to chat to men on the net as the lack of face to face contact makes guys a bit more forward with what they actually want (You wouldnt expect a guy to ask you to do stuff with him in a pub within two minutes of meeting him would you lol, well maybe it happens lol)
Anyhoo guys are just like that, not all of us thankfully and i'm just thankful that i'm growing up lol. Seems no-one is intersted now i'm all nice though lol, everyone thinks im gay. Ta ta.
2006-09-05 02:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by atuniagain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advise 101. Okay this is a 3 part answer. 1. 99% of guys are horny and when it comes to not having to go face to face with a girl to talk about sex, it's much easier and so they do it. 2. How many times in a day do I think about sex...let me count the ways...1, 2, 300, 400...it's a guys nature. But these guys could be either 10 and wanna bring up the subject, or they could be 60 and wanna.....well, we like to call these guys "sexual predators". And that's just ...wrong and sick. 3. Did I mention about guys being horny all the time?? Hope this helped.
2006-09-05 02:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by JUStin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For many men with no social skills (or perhaps looks) the internet is their only source for talking with women. They may be outrageously unclean over the net, but in real life you'll find they're either working in IT or some other anti-social job and hiding away from any situation which involves lively conversation - least still flirting! Let them know that in real life you would slap them for coming on so strong so why should you put up with it online? If we were all like that in the real world it would be like something out of that 60's film where everyone has sex with everyone! (which one I hear you ask!).
If you ignore them then you'll be ensuring that one more IT worker can'r skive off any longer. Try it!
2006-09-05 02:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some guys feel they are more likely to be in with a chance of meeting someone or getting some 'Cyber Sex' on here, especially if they target specific answers or questions regarding sex.
Some females enjoy it whilst others are anoyed by it, some are even too nice to see the obvious, however, not all guys are like it.
Im a guy, and I resent the bad name the people you refer to are giving me!
2006-09-05 02:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Panther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think tha a lot of the people signing in on this site are immature and/or perverts. Just look at some of the stupid posts they leave. Always 2 or 3 questions a day about penis size etc. Get a life you people.. JMHO. GaryT
2006-09-05 02:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by gary t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to get annoyed at all. I think the best way to approach this matter is to let each person know, in a plain language, your area(s) of interest, including your likes/dislikes and so forth. Friendship is all about sharing the same interests together, otherwise, we'll be talking about enemity. Cheers!
2006-09-05 03:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the crowd honey... we all peobably get those emails. I know I get them everyday. It annoys me and I write back cuss them out and tell them that if they do it again I will report them. If it is on yahoo, contact yahoo and give them the user name or email and let them take care of it. Isn't there some way you can block emails? I'm not for sure. Just ignore them and if theat still doesn't work like I said report them to yahoo.
2006-09-05 02:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kasie Faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are silly little boys who aren't aware that real men don't need to have sex with every woman they meet! That an the fact that they are controlled by their penis and any brains that they do have a taken up thinking about sex, cars and bodily functions. Answer your question?
2006-09-05 02:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Ria K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are driven by sex. Its a default setting in us. Sorry. You should tell the guy right off, that You are not gonna talk about that. Set some ground rules first thing.
2006-09-05 02:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah now princess - being fair not ALL the guys on here are like that - granted I too get the propositioning mails, but best thing is to ignore it. Having said that - sometimes we DO lead the men on unknowingly!!!
2006-09-05 02:39:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋