Everyone I see I try and be nice to them,even the boys,they don't want anything to do with me...it's really getting to me now...please help me and support me
2006-09-05 02:30:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey there,don't be afraid of those stupid people,just stick to your own crowd and enjoy it,life isn't about having loads of friends,it's about having just a few good ones! If you need any more help just e-mail me. xxx
2006-09-05 23:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♥HELLO♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the number of friends you have . Its the quality of the friends that you do have that counts. Also don't try to hard to make friends your only young and will over time have some great close friends. This may not help you now i know but you sound like a nice girl and people will see this in you. Sorry if this is no quick fix but being a kid can suck at times, things will get better for you in time i promise.
2006-09-05 09:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by SilverSurfer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's not just a confidence issue? Or are you being too sensitive?
All you can do is be youself.
A lot of people have problems at school, but it doesn't last forever.
School may seem like a big thing now, but before you know it you'll be at college or working and these people will just be a distant memory from the past.
2006-09-05 09:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by Wafflebox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a few close friends you have started of fantastically, that means it isn't your fault that these people are idiots! I was like you at school and didn't have many friends in my class, so I went to a Youth Club with one of my friends and met people from other schools, who would then introduce me to other people. Friendship is not limited to school you know, there are plenty of people who would be privelegded to call you their friend. Forget about these tools and go out and have a shed load of fun with people who are worth bothering with!
2006-09-05 10:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ria K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to get friends you have to be more like yourself, you can't just come up to people and tell them nice things because then they think your a sucker for a friend .
You have to know that school is not about the people around you, it's about and ONLY U!
Focus in your studies and stuff don't waste your time... then when you least expect it they show up BUT!! if they ask you to do there homework...you tell them "Listen just because the teacher pack you up with **** tonight doesn't mean you have to throw it at me.."
That's all you have to say just to get ride of them..trust me it works because if you don't show much attitude in what your say they ain't gonna take you seriously.
If you want to make friends...you have to let them come up to you because if you go up to them they will treat you like ****...and ignor u and everything.
You have to know that you ain't the kind of person that goes and makes friends like that coz you can't trust no one but be honest and say things that won't harm others...U have to be more down to earth!!
Like me :)) Good luck
2006-09-05 09:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people cant like you for who you are then they are not worth the bother in the first place.
Dont let it get to you just show youre strong keep your chin up and you will find the BEST friend you always wanted.
everyone on here is your friend
2006-09-05 09:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try sitting down with a diffrent group at lunch everyday and just be yourslef and keep being nice and they will come to you ask lots of questions find out if you have anything in common with the people your talking to you will be fine
2006-09-05 09:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by the ole ball and chain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucy, just be yourself and people that appreciate the real you WILL come around. Don't be in a hurry, it will all work out. Make yourself happy first and then share that happiness with those that you choose. Good luck to ya!!!GaryT
2006-09-05 09:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like someone might be speading a rumor, when they treat you bad askem what the problem is so you may resolve this childs play, like mature people, if they act stupid tell them, Thats what i thought im not dealing with some one mature.Good luck. and find ya another group of friends to hang with cause it sounds like the ones you have might not be your real friends.
2006-09-05 09:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by sugerglaze28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much about it. Just don't try to be someone you're not. Just be yourself. Eventually the right friends who's worth it will come to you.
2006-09-05 09:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by Tesss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋